I was ill yesterday so I stayed in bed most of the day resting. Then I got a message from HB T asking to meet up with me. It's interesting how your biology can work both for and against you, because I came back to life a bit when I knew I was meeting her. So I pulled myself together and met her in the city centre.
The first time I'd been out with her (see my "Intuition Sarging" post) she'd brought her friend along with her. Now she was by herself and the friend was conveniently somewhere else for the day. We went down by the river and sat and talked and had a drink. I did some patterning lightly, including the Beauty Is Common pattern and it went down well.
The kino was going great. I'd almost forgotten how powerful a technique kino is. On both times I have been out with HB T the kino has been so useful. It lets you show you are sexual, confident and you can test to see how she is feeling about you in return by noticing if she kinos in return. On the first meeting she wasn't kinoing a lot in return but was happily letting me use kino. On this second meeting (because it was just me and her, without her girlfriend to judge her?) HB T was kinoing back to me a lot. We were holding hands, touching each other's arms and backs. Later I had my arm around her and she had her arm around me, and this was a direct escalation of the earlier kino.
I'd told her I'd been ill and she started paying a lot of extra attention to me when I told her I wasn't well. She'd told me she likes the actor Ralph Fiennes, so I had the idea to link Ralph with me by telling her I am The English Patient. In the film, the English Patient is looked after and falls in love with his foreign nurse. (I am English and HB T is
Spanish). This got a great response from HB T, so whenever I felt cold or warm or ill, I made sure to let her see I wasn't well through my non-verbal. She'd then come close to me, kino, hug me, hold my hand and ask if I was alright. I really was feeling ill, so that wasn't acting, but I made sure to let her know how I was feeling without telling her directly. I let her notice it for herself and therefore she thought it was her own idea to come and comfort me.
We walked and talked, me now with HB T's jacket around my shoulders to keep me warm. She walked with her arm in mine in the French style. I did a palm-reading outside a pub and gave suggestions for her to feel trust and comfort and connection. I noticed that when I did a rehearsed palm reading script it was less accurate than when I use my intuition and say things based on how I've actually read the person. The learning experience here is that when I know the person a little or can read what kind of a person she is, it is better for me to follow those intuitions as this makes the reading more powerful and accurate. But when I don't know the person I can fall back on the rehearsed script. I then let her try to read my palm to ( I think this was really just an excuse for her to kino me more than anything). It was like my being ill had established a frame where she was free to hold me and rub my back and hug me in the cause of helping me feel better.
I was getting hungry so we ended up taking a taxi to a Mexican restaurant which just happened to be near HB T's house. We ate at the restaurant, all the while my playing up my English Patient role. At one point she said she was going to adopt me and I could be her little brother. Has she been reading the TD Archive? I tried not to laugh when I heard her say that, and I agreed to be adopted by her. Here I used a little Displaying Higher Value technique which I have used successfully a few times. Here’s how it works – I tell her I’ve had a song in my head all day. The song is “Perfect” by Fairground Attraction. I sing a few lines from the song to help her know the song I mean and look her in the eye as I do it. If you know the song I mean you’ll know the lyrics – “It’s got to be perfect, it’s got to be worth it, too many people take second best, but I won’t take anything less, it’s got to be perfect.”. What this does is send the message that I am the selector and will only accept a girl who meets my high standards. Of course this is all implied metaphorically. My meaning is ambiguous, and chicks love this shit, they love trying to work out what does he mean by that. They seem programmed to look for deeper meaning and significance in communication.
It’s kind of like the two female psychologists who pass each other in the street. One of them says good morning and the other thinks “I wonder what she means by that”. It adds a layer of complexity to you that makes her wonder what you mean. She’s thinking “is he just singing a song or is he trying to tell me I have to be good enough”. This adds intrigue and depth to your interaction and makes them wonder the true meaning.
HB T then said I could sleep at her place if I wanted to. I think what enabled me to get this offer from her was the connecting and intuition material I'd run last time combined with the trust material in the palm reading, all now brought together in a frame where it is socially acceptable to take someone home (ostensibly to look after me). I agreed that it was better for me to stay at her place than to walk all the way home in my sick condition, so we walked to HB T's apartment.
I'd like to say I shagged her all night, but I didn't because I was really feeling ill by this time (it was 4.30am) and her father was next door. We did hug and kiss, then in the morning continued with more touching and kissing each other. I really like this chick, she is the best chick I've been out with for some time and it would be great to see her in England.
As I left her apartment in the morning she had to sneak me out in case her father saw me (hey it's a religious country) and I told her I've done the same a few times in the past too. (I remember once sneaking FB Athletic out of my parent's house with split-second timing).
So, all in all a good night and lovely to spend time with a quality chick who treats me very well. That's important to me. I'm sure it's important to you too. Now I'm just waiting for a bunch of coughing and spluttering guys to start showing up at the lairs. I actually think for girls on day twos it could be worth playing around with this frame because it allows her an excuse to kino, buy you drinks and take you home. I remember a girl I fucked in a one night stand years ago (nightclub PU) – I told her I’d missed my train home, had nowhere to stay, gave her some puppy dog eyes and she took me home to her place and I banged her on her living room floor.
I think if they are attracted (by looks or by gaming her verbally) and then you move into the “sick” frame, it works as a rapport builder and she can enter a frame where it is socially acceptable for her to take you home to your place or her place, cook for you, get you drinking, and you can take to your bed and have her come in to comfort you. It’s not my default game but it is something to play around with if you get the chance. This week I need to change my name to Sick Boy, it seems! Adios amigos.
The first time I'd been out with her (see my "Intuition Sarging" post) she'd brought her friend along with her. Now she was by herself and the friend was conveniently somewhere else for the day. We went down by the river and sat and talked and had a drink. I did some patterning lightly, including the Beauty Is Common pattern and it went down well.
The kino was going great. I'd almost forgotten how powerful a technique kino is. On both times I have been out with HB T the kino has been so useful. It lets you show you are sexual, confident and you can test to see how she is feeling about you in return by noticing if she kinos in return. On the first meeting she wasn't kinoing a lot in return but was happily letting me use kino. On this second meeting (because it was just me and her, without her girlfriend to judge her?) HB T was kinoing back to me a lot. We were holding hands, touching each other's arms and backs. Later I had my arm around her and she had her arm around me, and this was a direct escalation of the earlier kino.
I'd told her I'd been ill and she started paying a lot of extra attention to me when I told her I wasn't well. She'd told me she likes the actor Ralph Fiennes, so I had the idea to link Ralph with me by telling her I am The English Patient. In the film, the English Patient is looked after and falls in love with his foreign nurse. (I am English and HB T is
Spanish). This got a great response from HB T, so whenever I felt cold or warm or ill, I made sure to let her see I wasn't well through my non-verbal. She'd then come close to me, kino, hug me, hold my hand and ask if I was alright. I really was feeling ill, so that wasn't acting, but I made sure to let her know how I was feeling without telling her directly. I let her notice it for herself and therefore she thought it was her own idea to come and comfort me.
We walked and talked, me now with HB T's jacket around my shoulders to keep me warm. She walked with her arm in mine in the French style. I did a palm-reading outside a pub and gave suggestions for her to feel trust and comfort and connection. I noticed that when I did a rehearsed palm reading script it was less accurate than when I use my intuition and say things based on how I've actually read the person. The learning experience here is that when I know the person a little or can read what kind of a person she is, it is better for me to follow those intuitions as this makes the reading more powerful and accurate. But when I don't know the person I can fall back on the rehearsed script. I then let her try to read my palm to ( I think this was really just an excuse for her to kino me more than anything). It was like my being ill had established a frame where she was free to hold me and rub my back and hug me in the cause of helping me feel better.
I was getting hungry so we ended up taking a taxi to a Mexican restaurant which just happened to be near HB T's house. We ate at the restaurant, all the while my playing up my English Patient role. At one point she said she was going to adopt me and I could be her little brother. Has she been reading the TD Archive? I tried not to laugh when I heard her say that, and I agreed to be adopted by her. Here I used a little Displaying Higher Value technique which I have used successfully a few times. Here’s how it works – I tell her I’ve had a song in my head all day. The song is “Perfect” by Fairground Attraction. I sing a few lines from the song to help her know the song I mean and look her in the eye as I do it. If you know the song I mean you’ll know the lyrics – “It’s got to be perfect, it’s got to be worth it, too many people take second best, but I won’t take anything less, it’s got to be perfect.”. What this does is send the message that I am the selector and will only accept a girl who meets my high standards. Of course this is all implied metaphorically. My meaning is ambiguous, and chicks love this shit, they love trying to work out what does he mean by that. They seem programmed to look for deeper meaning and significance in communication.
It’s kind of like the two female psychologists who pass each other in the street. One of them says good morning and the other thinks “I wonder what she means by that”. It adds a layer of complexity to you that makes her wonder what you mean. She’s thinking “is he just singing a song or is he trying to tell me I have to be good enough”. This adds intrigue and depth to your interaction and makes them wonder the true meaning.
HB T then said I could sleep at her place if I wanted to. I think what enabled me to get this offer from her was the connecting and intuition material I'd run last time combined with the trust material in the palm reading, all now brought together in a frame where it is socially acceptable to take someone home (ostensibly to look after me). I agreed that it was better for me to stay at her place than to walk all the way home in my sick condition, so we walked to HB T's apartment.
I'd like to say I shagged her all night, but I didn't because I was really feeling ill by this time (it was 4.30am) and her father was next door. We did hug and kiss, then in the morning continued with more touching and kissing each other. I really like this chick, she is the best chick I've been out with for some time and it would be great to see her in England.
As I left her apartment in the morning she had to sneak me out in case her father saw me (hey it's a religious country) and I told her I've done the same a few times in the past too. (I remember once sneaking FB Athletic out of my parent's house with split-second timing).
So, all in all a good night and lovely to spend time with a quality chick who treats me very well. That's important to me. I'm sure it's important to you too. Now I'm just waiting for a bunch of coughing and spluttering guys to start showing up at the lairs. I actually think for girls on day twos it could be worth playing around with this frame because it allows her an excuse to kino, buy you drinks and take you home. I remember a girl I fucked in a one night stand years ago (nightclub PU) – I told her I’d missed my train home, had nowhere to stay, gave her some puppy dog eyes and she took me home to her place and I banged her on her living room floor.
I think if they are attracted (by looks or by gaming her verbally) and then you move into the “sick” frame, it works as a rapport builder and she can enter a frame where it is socially acceptable for her to take you home to your place or her place, cook for you, get you drinking, and you can take to your bed and have her come in to comfort you. It’s not my default game but it is something to play around with if you get the chance. This week I need to change my name to Sick Boy, it seems! Adios amigos.
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