Last night was a great night and I really connected with a lovely girl. I need to guard against oneitus with this HB because she really is a sweet chick and one I could fall for because she is outwardly cute and also has a lot of inner beauty.
Let’s call her HB T. I have known her for a while but had never been out with her until last night. We ended up staying out all night together and I had to drag myself out of bed in the morning for my work meeting.
HB T is Spanish and quite a cutie. She had told me she would like to visit England this summer, so I’ve been telling her about what it’s like to work there. We met up last night and she brought her chick friend, P, with her who also has been giving me IOIs during the past weeks. We went to the cinema to see Ladykillers.
As we walked I made sure to stay away from boring, “guy” topics and to aim my material for my target audience. I talked about the dual meaning of “ladykiller” i.e. also a good looking guy who gets the girls. They liked that theme and then I did some playful distancing by saying I’m not like that (all the time signalling that I am like that non-verbally) and telling them I’m more like Paul Newman who has been married to the same lady for decades. Newman said “why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home?”. I got that from Major Mark (thanks Major!). The chicks loved that.
We got into the theme of actors. I brought up Sean Connery how all the girls seem to like him. P. said she likes Richard Gere and told her Natural Mike looks like Gere and the fun we had in Croatia with Swedish chicks who called him Gere when we PUed them on the beach in Dubrovnik. I got into themes of noticing someone who stands out and makes you think in new ways and is different from the boring routine ways of thinking, linking it all to myself.
At the cinema I noticed the chicks waited to sit so I was in the middle. This was a small IOI and there was to be no CBing. I kept P. involved enough to keep her interested but turned my attention to T. who is my target. I had some good non-direct kino going in the kino, legs touching, shoulders resting against each other. Her body language was all tilted towards me during the film, another mini IOI. All good circumstantial evidence.
Afterwards we walked and talked and hit a couple of bars. On the street we passed the chick from the night before who I had sarged (Tania – see other recent rapport on this wannabe poet sarge). I got some social proof from all the chicks because they could all see how I was apparently in demand from other chicks. Moving on, I calibrated that the slightly cocky stuff was not so effective and P even defended T once as I busted her. I resolved to drop all of that and go for a pure rapport game without even trying to be humorous.
I still can’t believe how well it went, I’d almost forgotten how top notch my rapport skills are because I’ve been experimenting more recently with a cocky game. After tonight and the insane way they responded to my rapport game, I have resolved to stay almost exclusively with the rapport game whenever possible. Other game might be needed for chicks with shields, and I have material now to get through that, but I think my default game is rapport. It makes sense to play to ones strengths and after tonight I will certainly keep this going. Here’s what happened. It worked so well, it was scary.
I was using a lot of intuitions, patterning, eliciting values, palmistry and offering insights, all the while linking all their positive thoughts to me.
In the first bar we chatted about future plans, so that was kind of fluffy but I made sure not to talk about myself. I’d already got perceived value to them, so it was more matter of building trust and comfort. I went beyond those aspects of rapport though, I managed to create some massive intrigue and connects. As we walked to the second bar I brought out the Vampire Girls Dream routine and they really got into that. It allows mild sexual themes to be introduced into the conversation without triggering shields or shut down.
In the second bar it really hit G-force. I started patterning about connecting with people, being on the same wavelength and knowing when you are with someone like that, so this was a kind of signal recognition and connection combination. I was gathering T’s trancewords, one of which was “open-minded” and I fed them all back and linked them to myself. I talked about intuitions about how you can know what someone is going to going to say before they say it when you are connected, and how I knew when they were going to ask me a question before they asked it. They recognised the truth in what I said, and they wanted to know how I knew. (It was from watching their non-verbal) and this created more intrigue. I saw T. remembering the words to a song and noticed her eye-accessing cues and fed back to her the process of how she remembers things as an intuition I had about her. I told her she sees the words and then she says the words to herself inside her head to check them. She was astounded at how I knew that.
They talked about how close they were and I told them maybe they had been sister’s in a past life, and they bought that possibility big time (chick crack) and then I looked at P.’s palm and she instantly wanted to have it read. I did a reading on her and told her about her past and future, she was thrilled with the accuracy of it and wanted to know how I knew so much about her. I didn’t do T’s palm because I wanted to make her work for it and didn’t want to give her too much attention (Mystery Method). This left T. wanting more from me. She told me about writing in her diary and I patterned her on why that is so rewarding, that she has to share those thoughts with someone non-judgemental, with someone who is accepting and a book can do that, and some people can, but not everyone is willing or able to listen carefully, to take the time to really focus in on what you are saying, to be open-minded and to open themselves up to being able to accept who you are, what fulfils you, and what really is so important to a person. That was all linked into me as being that person.
A lot of what I was doing was telling them things about themselves that I was intuiting and observing non-verabally and feeding it back to them. They found it intriguing to have someone know so much about them. At one point I was telling T. about what she does and why she does it and P. freaked out, saying “that is exactly what I was saying to myself word for word! How did you know what I was thinking?”. I was able to enter into their world and see how their minds work. They said they’d never met anyone like me before and said I must be able to read minds or something. I had to calm P. down because she said it was a little scary. I told her everyone can be intuitive but most of us turn it off most of the time or don’t practice our abilities much. That helped calm her. They commented on how I rarely spoke about myself and was keeping the conversation on them and they said not many people do that. I said well I know what I am going to say, my own stories bore me because I know the ending, I know how I think already, it is much more interesting finding out about other people and how they think.
When their buying temperatures were sky high I did a Strategic Temporary Exit . This is something I do on the occasions when I know the conditions are right. I’ve never written about it before but I know what I do. Here is the structure. In a sarge where the targets are clearly sold on me and are connected to me in an insanely strong way (as these chicks were), I know and have a lot of field proof of this that by going away (to the toilet etc) for a couple of minutes is to my advantage because the targets will talk about how amazing what I have done with them is. This ratifies what they have experienced, making it more real in their minds. By talking about what they have both felt around me it gives social acceptance me and they both come to know and agree that the other chick is as amazed and thrilled at what they have experienced with me as her friend is. This makes what I have done with them very solid and can strengthen it. While I am away they talk about how I read their thoughts exactly and could tell them so very closely the way they experience things, what they look for and how they know they have it. It is a form of physical fractionation. I only do this when I know I have the hypnotic equivalent of a customer trying to push banknotes into the salesman’s hands and he is not sure if the car is actually the right one for the customer after all. The pursuer has become the pursued.
Coming back from the toilet, I unexpectedly performed a coup de grace in my use of the levels of the mind pattern. It is the first time I have used it in the field and it was dynamite. I had the strongest doggy dinner bowl looks from both chicks that I have seen for years. T. leaned forward and whispered something to P after I’d finished. I felt incredibly powerful seeing those responses. They were so clearly rocked by what I’d said to them I had to find out what T. had whispered. I asked her and she shyly told me she’d said “I just blushed but I couldn’t hide it”. She had responded so powerfully that she couldn’t control it and was meta-commenting on it to her friend, maybe to alleviate some of the embarrassment she’d felt. She told me she wished she’d met me earlier in her life and that I could stay longer with her in Spain. I whispered “T. life is long and there will be times in the future for us”. Both P and T talked about coming to visit me at home in England at that point.
By this time it was four thirty in the morning and time had flown by. I patterned on this as we walked home, getting them to remember times when they’d really had a special experience and how time flies. I time distorted it too and linked to myself. Both chicks wanted to stay out longer but I had a meeting to go to in a few hours’ time. They told me to come round to visit them at home soon and they’ll cook for me and play the piano.
I left them with doggy dinner bowl looks on their faces. What I’d love to have had is a hidden mic to hear their conversation about me as the walked home. All in all, this was a super sarge night and I found out a lot about how these chicks’ minds works. I also saw some new qualities in T that I really like and would like to get closer to her because, like all the best incredible connections are, it was a real two way connection.
Unless these chicks are into three-somes, which I doubt, I’ll have to set up a one on one meeting with T. to proceed.
Here are some things that worked majorly well, and I’ll make sure to continue using whenever I can : -
Intuitions that pace and lead her. Establishes deep rapport, fascination and intrigue.
Proving insights to the target about how she thinks
Patterning on fulfilment
Signal recognition and setting myself up as having someone of those qualities she longs for.
Levels of the Mind patterning
Palmistry (with the reward of a follow up handwriting analysis if the palm reading is good)
Incredible connections
Qualities in a person she likes (and linking to self)
Mindreading (not done explicitly tonight because it might have been too much for them to think of anything word and have me tell them the exact word. I’ll save that for next time)
Vampire Girls Dream
Social proof from last night’s chick Tania
Kino
Having achieved high perceived value.
Chick Crack topics
Centering the conversation on them
Strategic Temporary Exit
Let’s call her HB T. I have known her for a while but had never been out with her until last night. We ended up staying out all night together and I had to drag myself out of bed in the morning for my work meeting.
HB T is Spanish and quite a cutie. She had told me she would like to visit England this summer, so I’ve been telling her about what it’s like to work there. We met up last night and she brought her chick friend, P, with her who also has been giving me IOIs during the past weeks. We went to the cinema to see Ladykillers.
As we walked I made sure to stay away from boring, “guy” topics and to aim my material for my target audience. I talked about the dual meaning of “ladykiller” i.e. also a good looking guy who gets the girls. They liked that theme and then I did some playful distancing by saying I’m not like that (all the time signalling that I am like that non-verbally) and telling them I’m more like Paul Newman who has been married to the same lady for decades. Newman said “why go out for hamburger when you have steak at home?”. I got that from Major Mark (thanks Major!). The chicks loved that.
We got into the theme of actors. I brought up Sean Connery how all the girls seem to like him. P. said she likes Richard Gere and told her Natural Mike looks like Gere and the fun we had in Croatia with Swedish chicks who called him Gere when we PUed them on the beach in Dubrovnik. I got into themes of noticing someone who stands out and makes you think in new ways and is different from the boring routine ways of thinking, linking it all to myself.
At the cinema I noticed the chicks waited to sit so I was in the middle. This was a small IOI and there was to be no CBing. I kept P. involved enough to keep her interested but turned my attention to T. who is my target. I had some good non-direct kino going in the kino, legs touching, shoulders resting against each other. Her body language was all tilted towards me during the film, another mini IOI. All good circumstantial evidence.
Afterwards we walked and talked and hit a couple of bars. On the street we passed the chick from the night before who I had sarged (Tania – see other recent rapport on this wannabe poet sarge). I got some social proof from all the chicks because they could all see how I was apparently in demand from other chicks. Moving on, I calibrated that the slightly cocky stuff was not so effective and P even defended T once as I busted her. I resolved to drop all of that and go for a pure rapport game without even trying to be humorous.
I still can’t believe how well it went, I’d almost forgotten how top notch my rapport skills are because I’ve been experimenting more recently with a cocky game. After tonight and the insane way they responded to my rapport game, I have resolved to stay almost exclusively with the rapport game whenever possible. Other game might be needed for chicks with shields, and I have material now to get through that, but I think my default game is rapport. It makes sense to play to ones strengths and after tonight I will certainly keep this going. Here’s what happened. It worked so well, it was scary.
I was using a lot of intuitions, patterning, eliciting values, palmistry and offering insights, all the while linking all their positive thoughts to me.
In the first bar we chatted about future plans, so that was kind of fluffy but I made sure not to talk about myself. I’d already got perceived value to them, so it was more matter of building trust and comfort. I went beyond those aspects of rapport though, I managed to create some massive intrigue and connects. As we walked to the second bar I brought out the Vampire Girls Dream routine and they really got into that. It allows mild sexual themes to be introduced into the conversation without triggering shields or shut down.
In the second bar it really hit G-force. I started patterning about connecting with people, being on the same wavelength and knowing when you are with someone like that, so this was a kind of signal recognition and connection combination. I was gathering T’s trancewords, one of which was “open-minded” and I fed them all back and linked them to myself. I talked about intuitions about how you can know what someone is going to going to say before they say it when you are connected, and how I knew when they were going to ask me a question before they asked it. They recognised the truth in what I said, and they wanted to know how I knew. (It was from watching their non-verbal) and this created more intrigue. I saw T. remembering the words to a song and noticed her eye-accessing cues and fed back to her the process of how she remembers things as an intuition I had about her. I told her she sees the words and then she says the words to herself inside her head to check them. She was astounded at how I knew that.
They talked about how close they were and I told them maybe they had been sister’s in a past life, and they bought that possibility big time (chick crack) and then I looked at P.’s palm and she instantly wanted to have it read. I did a reading on her and told her about her past and future, she was thrilled with the accuracy of it and wanted to know how I knew so much about her. I didn’t do T’s palm because I wanted to make her work for it and didn’t want to give her too much attention (Mystery Method). This left T. wanting more from me. She told me about writing in her diary and I patterned her on why that is so rewarding, that she has to share those thoughts with someone non-judgemental, with someone who is accepting and a book can do that, and some people can, but not everyone is willing or able to listen carefully, to take the time to really focus in on what you are saying, to be open-minded and to open themselves up to being able to accept who you are, what fulfils you, and what really is so important to a person. That was all linked into me as being that person.
A lot of what I was doing was telling them things about themselves that I was intuiting and observing non-verabally and feeding it back to them. They found it intriguing to have someone know so much about them. At one point I was telling T. about what she does and why she does it and P. freaked out, saying “that is exactly what I was saying to myself word for word! How did you know what I was thinking?”. I was able to enter into their world and see how their minds work. They said they’d never met anyone like me before and said I must be able to read minds or something. I had to calm P. down because she said it was a little scary. I told her everyone can be intuitive but most of us turn it off most of the time or don’t practice our abilities much. That helped calm her. They commented on how I rarely spoke about myself and was keeping the conversation on them and they said not many people do that. I said well I know what I am going to say, my own stories bore me because I know the ending, I know how I think already, it is much more interesting finding out about other people and how they think.
When their buying temperatures were sky high I did a Strategic Temporary Exit . This is something I do on the occasions when I know the conditions are right. I’ve never written about it before but I know what I do. Here is the structure. In a sarge where the targets are clearly sold on me and are connected to me in an insanely strong way (as these chicks were), I know and have a lot of field proof of this that by going away (to the toilet etc) for a couple of minutes is to my advantage because the targets will talk about how amazing what I have done with them is. This ratifies what they have experienced, making it more real in their minds. By talking about what they have both felt around me it gives social acceptance me and they both come to know and agree that the other chick is as amazed and thrilled at what they have experienced with me as her friend is. This makes what I have done with them very solid and can strengthen it. While I am away they talk about how I read their thoughts exactly and could tell them so very closely the way they experience things, what they look for and how they know they have it. It is a form of physical fractionation. I only do this when I know I have the hypnotic equivalent of a customer trying to push banknotes into the salesman’s hands and he is not sure if the car is actually the right one for the customer after all. The pursuer has become the pursued.
Coming back from the toilet, I unexpectedly performed a coup de grace in my use of the levels of the mind pattern. It is the first time I have used it in the field and it was dynamite. I had the strongest doggy dinner bowl looks from both chicks that I have seen for years. T. leaned forward and whispered something to P after I’d finished. I felt incredibly powerful seeing those responses. They were so clearly rocked by what I’d said to them I had to find out what T. had whispered. I asked her and she shyly told me she’d said “I just blushed but I couldn’t hide it”. She had responded so powerfully that she couldn’t control it and was meta-commenting on it to her friend, maybe to alleviate some of the embarrassment she’d felt. She told me she wished she’d met me earlier in her life and that I could stay longer with her in Spain. I whispered “T. life is long and there will be times in the future for us”. Both P and T talked about coming to visit me at home in England at that point.
By this time it was four thirty in the morning and time had flown by. I patterned on this as we walked home, getting them to remember times when they’d really had a special experience and how time flies. I time distorted it too and linked to myself. Both chicks wanted to stay out longer but I had a meeting to go to in a few hours’ time. They told me to come round to visit them at home soon and they’ll cook for me and play the piano.
I left them with doggy dinner bowl looks on their faces. What I’d love to have had is a hidden mic to hear their conversation about me as the walked home. All in all, this was a super sarge night and I found out a lot about how these chicks’ minds works. I also saw some new qualities in T that I really like and would like to get closer to her because, like all the best incredible connections are, it was a real two way connection.
Unless these chicks are into three-somes, which I doubt, I’ll have to set up a one on one meeting with T. to proceed.
Here are some things that worked majorly well, and I’ll make sure to continue using whenever I can : -
Intuitions that pace and lead her. Establishes deep rapport, fascination and intrigue.
Proving insights to the target about how she thinks
Patterning on fulfilment
Signal recognition and setting myself up as having someone of those qualities she longs for.
Levels of the Mind patterning
Palmistry (with the reward of a follow up handwriting analysis if the palm reading is good)
Incredible connections
Qualities in a person she likes (and linking to self)
Mindreading (not done explicitly tonight because it might have been too much for them to think of anything word and have me tell them the exact word. I’ll save that for next time)
Vampire Girls Dream
Social proof from last night’s chick Tania
Kino
Having achieved high perceived value.
Chick Crack topics
Centering the conversation on them
Strategic Temporary Exit
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