I just got back from travelling around Eastern Europe. On my way home going  from Poland to Germany I met one of the most beautiful girls I've seen in my  life. She came into my carriage and sat down next to me. She is 24, tall, slim,
brunette and has penetrating green eyes. Here is my field report of my sarge of HB Greeneyes. 

I was already helping another HB with her bags as HB Greeneyes entered our carriage. This social proofed me because I was in conversation with the other HB and HB Greeneyes couldn't be sure if I was with the other HB or if I'd just met her in the carriage. I make sure to talk to people like they are old friends even if I don't know them, that way they feel comfortable with me. This has the advantage of letting the person I'm talking to slip into a rapport mode while the people watching the interaction can't tell how close I am to the other person. All they see is a HB is smiling and talking to me and enjoying it. Social proof is a powerful weapon of influence. 

In addition to this I was using English so HB Greeneyes knew I was different from the Polish guys she normally meets. One Polish chick I met on holiday there said there a Polish guys who have a secret pick up technique - they pretend to be native English speakers from the UK or USA. This, apparently, attracts a lot of HBs in Poland. After hearing this, I made sure to let people know I am from England. I knew it was attractive anyway to a lot of chicks there but this story confirmed it from the 'horse's mouth'. As I helped HB Greeneyes with her bag, I told her she was lucky to have 'a strong Englishman to help her', and smiled. She was with her sister, who turned out to be her mother. Good genes in that family!

I opened HB Greeneyes by busting her on her big watch. As first I asked her if she was short-sighted and needed a big watch face to be on time. That opened her but wasn't as effective as my next busting, which was 'are you a spy? That's a James Bond watch, I bet you have a secret weapon built into it!'. We constructed a role play where she was a spy and she loved it. I created a sense of 'us - versus - them' by telling her that her secret was safe with me and I
wouldn't tell anyone about her secret identity. 

Then I found out she used to work in my home town in England. What a small world. I pulled out my passport and showed her the coincidence. We had a definite connection there to build on after my having established some value and attraction through busting and social proof. She mentioned a famous rock star from my town and I told her he went to my school (true - but notice the frame setting - not that I went to his school or we went to the same school. He went to MY school). 

I then did more playful busting to fractionate. You have to remember we were in a carriage with 4 other people and she couldn't get really intimate, especially in front of her mother. I knew I had to keep her hooked while slowly
building the connection and attraction in a way that would not embarrass her. I used some push-pull, asking her if she was rich ('ok we are breaking up) and if she can cook ('ok we are back together'). I told her she can come to visit me in England. Natural Mike uses this a lot as an IOI quite early on. He even asks them if they want to marry him. They laugh because he can't be serious but it works as a IOI to show he is a sexual being. With HB Greeneyes I told her she could visit me, looking back I should have elaborated on what she could do when she visits e.g. attractive places, benefits to her. I'll do that next time. The trick is not to dwell on this offer, just to throw it out there as an IOI and move on. It also gives her a reason to stay in touch later when you go for the contact details close. 

I ran some light Speed Seduction patterning on her about special places one can visit and how this experience can stay with you for always and you'll look back on it as a magical moment. This was using ambiguity and time distortion to link myself to special moments in her life. She started talking about Portugal and how she loved her time there as an exchange student. I've been there so we connected on our experiences of travelling in Lisbon and I told her my story about almost drowning in Porto to expand what she knows about me as a person and to display personality traits such as leadership, resourcefulness and intuition. 
 

I made sure to bring her mother in so she would be on my side. We chatted about places in Romania we had both visited and I referred to her as HB Greeneyes' sister. She laughed and smiled a lot at my flattery - but I was
sincere, they could have been sisters.


It was going so well I felt sure I could get her contact details so I closed her for her Facebook because she was getting off soon. I found out where she lived and how far she was going on the journey. I've made that mistake before - chicks have jumped off the train mid-sarge before I could get contact information. This time I went for the information well in advance and got it successfully. I made sure to continue the sarge after I had her details to show
I was interested in her as a person, and I was! She was truly gorgeous and I could have looked into her eyes for hours. She had an amazing presence, too, one that went beyond the physical for me. That's unusual and it made her stand out from every other girl I'd met on the holiday thus far.


I told her I wanted to learn Polish and I tried out some phrases. This brought in other people in the carriage and the whole carriage was laughing and smiling with me and HB Greeneyes as we talked and worked on my Polish.


Another point of note - I didn't plow ahead incessantly. I gave HB Greeneyes time to open me. This was to test if she was interested in me and also to make her invest in the interaction. Some guys plow and plow without giving the girl a chance to start a thread that interests her. When she opens you of her own volition, it is a good sign and HB Greeneyes did that a number of times. I'd sit waiting for several seconds and smile inwardly when she spoke to continue the conversation.


I should have kinoed more but it was hard in a full carriage of people. Still, I think I could have had more physical contact on her shoulder and arm. That would have helped her remember the interaction even more fondly. 

I'm in touch with her online and will definitely hook up with her when I am
next in Poland.

A couple of weeks ago I post about my PU of a HB who looks like Britney (a little anyway!). This week I layed her. Here is the report as promised.

Much of the success of this PU and lay comes from the initial set up. I created the frame in her mind that I was the prize. I got strong indications of interest immediately from her and I quickly established myself as the prize. I think she was attracted to me physically to start with, and then when I displayed Alpha characteristics, patterned, and took the lead when I saw she was responding well to an authority figure .. well soon she was going to be mine.

I met her a couple of times and we always got sexual. I time distorted her to imagine fucking all night long and her looking back on it and feeling totally satisfied. I was kissing her and kinoing while I was doing this and this added to her acceptance I think, she was turned on anyway and when I got her thinking of the fuck she went along because I had her feeling body sensations that were exciting anyway. This girl has phoned me maybe 20 times. I have not phoned her once. This shows if you play a numbers game you will meet girls who are very much into you. Why waste time on some puritanical girl when there are some very sexually open HBs out there too? Next the bores. (PS this HB has a borefriend but seems to like me more)

I told her to come to see me on Tuesday. I took her for a drink to loosen her up but she didn’t need it. We went back to my place and kissed on the sofa. Then we moved to the bed. An interesting thing happened and I used negation to get around it. She was happy for me to play with her tits and take them out of the bra, but didn’t immediately agree to take the dress off. Weird, because I was all over her anyway … my hands in all the right places, but still that resistance to taking all the clothes off quickly … I got round it saying ..yes I really shouldn’t be taking your top off and you getting so turned on ….etc.

The same thing happened later after we had fucked and got dressed to go out. We returned to my place and I jumped into bed. We had already explored each other intimately and been butt naked … yet she didn’t immediately join me… she stalled about taking her clothes off … it was like she needed permission to do it, or to be told by me to take them off. I put this down to societal programming …that even though she had been naked, she felt a restriction on just doing what should now come naturally. She readily took them off when I told her too though. Do we live in such a sheeplike society that on a subconscious level a girl who has already given you her all still feels restrictions in the bedroom only a few hours later? 

So we fucked all night. She keeps phoning me to meet again. I am letting her pursue me. I need to program myself to remember that I am the prize. Just in case I forget or that old societal programming sneaks back in there.

This week has been great on the seduction scene for me. I also had a cute little Chinese girl over twice and we played around kissing and touching. She loved my idea of a massage and that opened things up to a more sexual direction. I third HB phoned me to go to a nightclub with her but I was too tired.

I just returned home from laying a cute girl who works as a writer in the Australian film industry. I was introduced to her 3 days ago at a party by my friend Jeremy, who  I am staying with. Jeremy works as a writer in the film industry too. HB Writer is about 28 years old and is half-Australian and half-American.

Before I was introduced to her at the party, she had been talking with Jeremy. Jeremy is not a PUA but is a very bright guy and he knew I was interested in finding out what the Australian girls are like. He built me up to her before he introduced me by telling her I am a very talented writer. She said “Yes, there are a lot of talented writers working here,”. Jeremy says he looked at her all serious and deadpan and said “No, I mean Stevie is a VERY talented writer.”

This is not exactly true, but Jeremy said it in a way that conveyed authority, and he says he sensed she was looking to make connections to work her way further into the industry. By building me up (in a similar way as Maniac High describes in his Mr Cool routine), Jeremy appealed to her aspirations of climbing up the ladder of success and gave good social proof for me.

He introduced us and I looked her strongly in the eye as we shook hands. I tried to transfer some of my energy into that look, and when it works (usually on perceptive and aware chicks), they sense my intent. It is not a needy or horny intent, more a confident and sensual look that I manage to convey. It certainly worked this time because within a few minutes of our conversation she was talking about my energy. It turns out that HB Writer is very into New-Age thinking, and when I saw how well our talk of energy and connections was going with her I knew I had a niche into her experience. I talked about incredible connections and linking that in with feeling that energy between two people. She talked about special auras. When I moved a couple of feet away from her sideways to lean on a wall  she followed my lead and moved with me so we could remain eye to eye. I took this to be a good sign as she was following my lead unconsciously. 

Our group, Jeremy, HB Writer and a few others decided to move on to a new place. We got a lift in a friend of HB Writer’s car with her. At the new place I played it cool and didn’t chase her too much. When Jeremy and I decided to go home she closed me for the number.

She called the next day and we arranged to meet two days after that.

I met her last night. My plan was to put her at her ease (which I did easily by talking about my trip and patterning about being in a new city and feeling at home in this situation even though it is new and exciting). I then planned to take her somewhere quiet and amp things up. We went to a café bar and got a quiet area in the corner to ourselves. I made sure to let her sit down first so I could sit next to her and kino her. Avoid sitting opposite if you can help it, this is less personal and kinoing is more difficult. Let her sit down first and then slide in next to her. A bench-style/lounge seat is good for that, and that is what we had in this place.

We got talking about the party of a few nights ago and that allowed me to bring back the theme of connection and energy. I used some SS patterning on her (I am now getting quite good at patterning on the fly). Sometimes she would interrupt my patterning and I would only get part of it out, but that is ok. Ross points out that when this happens it is usually a case of her revivifying the experience, and it is best to let her talk and to listen for her own trancewords which you can then feedback to her in your patterns. This is what was definitely happening here, she was talking about BUILDING a connection, about coming from the right SPACE, about MOVEMENT (which helped me talk about moving towards and enjoying a Nude Erection in your life). At the same time I was kinoing her and was soon holding her hand as I did the SS techniques. I anchored good feelings to a touch on her arm and I kept firing it off as I looked into her eyes and talked about the energy that two people can share.

Blah blah blah, it was really all totally vague conversation and had almost no concrete meaning to me, but to her, because  I was using her own trancewords, it had real meaning.

She asked about the book I was writing at the moment and I told her about an idea I have for a book. I used part of the BJ Pattern and Attraction versus Love to get her even hotter. I used the “Pig in a Bar” pattern to have her thinking of me going down on her. I used a lot of phonetic ambiguity and metaphor to lead her to thinking about sex, and then covertly connecting it to me. I knew she was getting into it because she started finding her own suggestive metaphors to respond with. They were not openly sexual and I doubt she even knew she was doing it, they were more unconscious representations of her secret sexual thoughts.

After perhaps an hour and a half she asked about where the apartment I am staying in, and then started telling me about where she lived. She described the view from her balcony and asked if I’d like to come back and see it. What could I say to that? “Sure”, I said and we jumped into a taxi, got to her place and I was banging her within minutes.

This was a straight-forward seduction for a change. I think it worked well because HB Writer liked the social proof I got from Jeremy, I connection with her and used the New-Age niche to gain entry into her experience of the world. Any patterning that came from that New-Age angle was going to have more power because she really believed in it. And while I was with her I believed in it too (not really, but enough for me to enter her world and to lead her into mine). And all this in the name of research into what the Australian girls are like.

What a studious and dedicated guy.

It is Sunday morning and I just returned home from laying Deborah the Dancer. I fucked her and she went off down stairs, so I sent a text message to Veroxii to tell him the good news (about her having cable and a wide-screen TV). She does a good breakfast too.

Here is my layreport.

I met Deborah in an Irish pub. We were sitting quite close to each other. She was at the next table. I didn’t open her right away, as I was not really bothered about sarging for a change. I just wanted to chill out and relax and listen to the band.

I noticed this chick, tall, pretty, with an open-back top revealing a great body and long legs. She was in a group of about 5 chicks. I listened to their conversation a little, then I opened the target’s friend by saying

“You know when I decided to come out tonight I had no idea at all about what to expect, I mean sometimes you see a sign, an advert for something you might find interesting (self-point) and you don’t know exactly what to expect, but you know it seems interesting and it sure makes a change from what you are used to. I mean sitting in the house can be so boring that when you get interested in trying something different, even if you don’t know for sure where it will lead, you can find yourself feeling interested because it is so different, you know what I mean?”

Her friend smiles and chatted for a few seconds, responding well to me. I then brought the girl with the long legs into the conversation. I continued on the same theme about trying something knew, and I told her I had an intuition that she likes to try new things. She said she did. I told her I also knew something else about her – that she likes a challenge. She smiled widely at me and gave doggy-dinner bowl looks. I had heard her talking earlier about a dancing contest she’d been in. It turns out she is a former ballet dancer (she even has the legs to prove it) and her name is Deborah. I threw in some cocky and funny and challenged her by saying I am sure she is not good enough or adventurous enough to have me beat her at pool. I told her I hope she is a good loser too, because when I play someone at pool I take no prisoners. I did this is an enthusiastic and playful way. She was interested, I could tell.

I’d opened using a NEO and some light pattern language, used my intuitions about her, and started challenging her. I was confident and playful. We had a dance a little (note I did not try to impress her or seduce her by using typical AFC dancing techniques, I did my seduction and interest-building through my words and my attitude.) I chatted to the other friends a little to keep them on board and to get social proof by showing Deborah I was not needy for her. I also find that when you get the friends to like you a lot, they talk all talk about you later on and the friends re-affirm to the target what a great guy you seem to be. And I am, of course. And I am modest too.

I got Deborah’s home and mobile number. Getting both numbers was a good IOI from her I think. Often chicks will give you just the mobile phone number to be a little careful with their privacy. We met up a few times and I tongued her down in the Tonguedown Bar. I built a connection through eliciting values, patterning, entertaining her and getting her to see what I have to offer. I told her stories about all the places I have been. She had told me she likes travelling so I made sure to tell her stories about my adventures overseas. I did this on purpose because I wanted her to see me as someone who is independent which was a trance word I heard her use a lot. Also I heard her use “spontaneous” a lot too and made sure to use it when I wanted to get her too meet up with me at short notice. I’d challenge her and use the weapon of consistency by saying things like “I don’t know if you are spontaneous and adventurous enough to meet up later on ….”, and usually she would.

She did try to shit-test me a few times by cancelling on me. I rescheduled a few times with her, and then she started to mess me around so I decided to put her in her place. I waited till she flaked on me and had offered another meeting instead, later in the week. I told her to “forget it, I am tired of all this last minute cancelling, when you arrange to meet me I expect you to keep to it, and if you can’t make it I need to know at least 24 hours in advance so I can make other plans.”

I ignored her for a while and my telling her off seemed to work, because when she got back in touch with me she was using the same trance words on me to get me to meet up. She would call up and say things like “Meet me if you are spontaneous”. I’d put her off to make her work a little and she was persistent in asking me and was calling me Mr. Spontaneous, and offering to buy me a drink to make up for her cancelling.

I agreed to meet her in a bar for a drink. She was in a group with some female friends. She was very pleased to see me and I made sure to kino her and really show value to her friends so they could talk about me later on and let Deborah know what a prize I am. The other benefits of entertaining the friends are that Deborah is competing a little for my attention, and I don’t seem needy.

I’d noticed that Deborah had a good visual imagination and likes travelling. She also has a good sense of humour so I combined these factors and had her take part in fantasy roleplays where we would run away to Italy together, steal a hot-air balloon, fly over the Alps and stay in a log cabin in the woods and lie together in front of a log fire. I have used the log cabin/log fire fantasy with a lot of chicks and they all seem to love it. I often bring it up in the form of recounting a dream.

Log Cabin Fantasy

“You know I had a really great dream last night, you know the kind of dream where you want it to go on and on, and don’t want it to end … like you don’t want to wake up? And it seemed so real because I dreamed I was staying in a log cabin, high in the mountains, away from other people and it was so cosy because there was a log fire inside, and even though it was so cold and fresh outside, as soon as you step inside the log cabin and see the fire glowing inside, you feel so warm. And I dreamed what it was like to lie on a warm rug in front of the fire in the glowing light from the fire and it was so great”. I will increase kino as the story goes on. Usually the chick will try to involve herself in the story and say things like “and we can lie together and warm ourselves in front of the fire and no one knows we are there, and we are there all alone for a whole week just enjoying ourselves …. “ I always agree with her and keep up the kino. I also make sure to add in any element she adds to the story by describing her added elements more vividly and help them to come to life. I also make sure to anchor the feeling of warmth and safety, or whatever she feels in connection with the story.

Then sometimes I get a kiss close from telling my “Vampire Girls” dream story, about another dream I had where these 3 vampire girls were chasing me through the night and they were so beautiful …. They were hunting me down and part of me wanted to get caught by them and have them bite my neck, and it was exciting. I have described this story before in Tao 8. Have a look there if you want it in more detail. It always seems to produce a kiss close.

Deborah invited me to her house. I’d asked about her favourite actor and got the qualities she likes in him, then I linked them to me. It turns out her favourite actor is Johnny Depp, so I suggested watch “Chocolat” with her. She bought the DVD and invited round to her place. We watched the film together, tasted chocolate mingled with red wine in our mouths, and I kinoed gently but with increasing arousal throughout the film. I brought in some fantasies during the film that were connected with escaping to France together and just letting go when you know you want to try something you know you want. I was tonguing her on the sofa and she asked if I wanted to go up stairs. (Green light).

We went up to her bedroom and the clothes came off. She sucked me off, I brought her off with my tongue, then fucked her for an hour before blasting into her. We slept together for the night.

She cooks a good breakfast and she really does have a wide-screen TV with cable. Just ask Veroxii, he’ll tell you.

I recently posted about my experience in Poland with my friend Mike.

Here is an update.

We are still in Poland, in Wroclaw. On the train we had a field day. We sat next to 2 girls and soon we were talking with them. One sitting next to me was rubbing up against me. Michael closed her for the email before she got off the train. No problems there. As the train was getting ready to leave the station she jumped back on and corrected the email address!! Certainly seems interested.

That left us with the little cute librarian chick sitting next to us. We joked with her, teased her playfully about her being wild but hiding behind her librarian image. As we were playing around with her 2 more HBs came and sat next to us. Mike said he’d seen them watching us from the next compartment. Social proof in action. They all knew we were playboys yet they still loved the interaction. The librarian girl even wrote her number and email on the same paper as the earlier HB. No problems at all. We we soon involved in a 3 way flirt.

When we got off we took the librarian into town and took her photo, kiss closed her and then she went for her new train. We looked around for an Internet Cafe (in Katowice). We asked a cute little girl with short dark hair where we could eat and she walked with us across town and showed us her favourite place. After eating we went for a new train to Wroclaw. Mike was soon talking with a little musician girl. I was kissing her before the end of the journey. I talked to a girl next to me simply to pass the journey and soon found we got along really well. I was sleeping on her shoulder in the compartment. I gave her the 4 animal questions game and she loved that ! We arranged to meet in town later.

Michael had done his work well and had arranged to go back to the hotel with the musician girl and her 2 friends. We took a taxi together. I went out to meet my girl and had a great time. Kiss closed at the end of the evening… lots of hugging and holding throughout the evening .. a walk through the old town at midnight was wonderful. She really liked me. I used some SS on her and she said she never felt as close to anyone as this so fast before. She even said I scared her because she felt like she’d known me forever but we’d only just met.

Is this a commom problem? I deflected it (never argue or ask why in such situations). She seemed ok about it though.

Back at the hotel Mike had got his girl undressed and done everything except fuck closed her. They slept together all night. His girl said she had never done that before with someone she just met on a train.

She was a virgin too. We are moving on to a new town later today. More updates to come.

I am currently touring Eastern Europe. I am 27 and I am travelling with my friend who is 35. Michael is a natural pick up artist. Today so far he has got numbers from 4 girls and kissed one of them, and it is only 7.30pm ! Currently he is meeting a girl that he picked up yesterday afternoon. I kissed a girl on the train platform 3 days ago.We both fuck closed a girl in Warsaw in the place we were staying a few days ago.

I want to write a little about what Michael does and what we have experienced in the countries we have visited and will visit in the coming weeks. We are travelling for 2 months so I will update you on the situation as it progresses over the coming 7 weeks.

We are in Poland now. I find Krakow to be full of stunning girls. Even the ones with normal faces have amazing bodies. The biggest difference from England and Germany, places I have recently been working and living in, are that the girls in Poland give you a lot of eye contact and show they are interested. I don’t think it is because we are English either, they look even before we say a word.

About Michael’s techniques. He talks to everyone. He is into the local languages and so he asks what things are called in the language. He then asks more personal information as the time progresses. He’ll point at something to a waitress and ask what it is called. He does it all very playfully. He has a very expressive face and he has great eye contact. He smiles a lot. After finding out what it is called he’ll say something such as ‘Where did you learn to speak English?’ … from there he’ll get into things such as where she studied and where she lives. It gets progressively more personal but in a very indirect way.

After about 45 minutes on the train today he was talking about her relationships. She got her photo taken with him and then with me, then in the station he kiss closed her and said goodbye. He got her address and phone number too.

He seems to have 2 styles. One style is the friendly and slower style, as used on the train today. He knew he had 2 hours to get to work on her, to find out what she was like. He doesn’t show much interest in her romantically until he gets some Indications of Interest. This is similar I suppose to Mystery. He is a good talker, and has a great personality. He is interesting to listen to and is persuasive.

His other style is more direct and especially playful. He relies for this style on a lot of eye contact. He’ll look at a girl as she passes with a smile and hold her gaze. He’ll keep looking back and laughing a little if she smiles back. This afternoon as we approached a train station he did this and number closed. There were a group of girls walking behind us. He picked a target to go after and kept turning around, grinning, and holding eye contact with her. In the station he went right over to her and asked if she spoke English. He told her he didn’t have a lot of time and that he liked her. I didn’t hear the exact words but I asked him about afterwards. I think he also said he is wanting to come to work in Poland and that it would be good to have some contacts there, and asked if she had an email address so they could keep in touch. She offered not only her email address but her mobile phone number also.

We have been travelling for only 5 days, and already we have met maybe 15 girls or groups of girls. Michael doesn’t know SS, he has simply gone out and honed his skills over the years. He is really good. I wonder how good he’d be if he read ASF and studied SS. I ran some patterns on the train today with the girl Michael kiss closed. I have some honour and didn’t try to close her when I know Mike was into her but she was really into it with me.

More to come. Next is Czech Republic. Mike fucked a girl there last year when we went. We’ll see how we do this time round.

I was lying in bed thinking about HB T. It struck me with her it is likely to be all or nothing. I like the girl for a lot of reasons, she seems to be into me too, in fact I have never had a girl so clearly into me for a long time.

How do I know she is so into me? It comes through in what she does for me, and more importantly HOW she communicates with me. She is extremely congruent in her communication. She looks at me with a doggy dinner bowl look all the time and does what she says she will do.

Why is it all or nothing then?

All – she really is into me as much as she is signalling. That’s all good. She is thinking the same things that she is showing me in her communication. Therefore she really digs me in a strong way. Great.

Nothing – Is she is not really into me as much as she seems and is the best fucking actress I have ever encountered? If so, then how can you trust someone like that for a moment longer? That kind of fake believability is dangerous and is the realm of sirens and cult leaders. If I find out she isn’t for real then it has to end because she is really good at faking it congruently.

The thing is, until something slips you have no way of telling if a person is for real or not. Can you tell I have been played before? Yes, the players get played sometimes too.

As there is no way of finding this out until it happens, my philosophy as a generally optimistic person is to throw myself into the positive cause and enjoy the moment while it lasts. Maybe it will last a long time. If one keeps harbouring all these doubts it just leads to self-doubt and doubting the other person. That leads to and exacerbates present insecurities.

No, better to plough ahead in the expectation that all is good and stay with the “all” rather than the “nothing” until the overall positive balance has tipped against you. In this specific case a small tilt will upset the scales completely I fear, because it will mean I have been playing with counterfeit measures.

I hope not though. I want it to be real.

I met up with HB T again. She is the chick I mentioned sarging in my recent “Intuition Sarging” and “English Patient” posts. She is a 27 year old Spanish HB, is real cute and she has a great body. I like her as a person a lot too. Tonight we saw a film together. During the film I escalated kino once I calibrated she was feeling comfortable sitting there with me in the dark. By ¾ of the way into the film I had my hand inside her cut-off T-Shirt and she was reciprocating. We left the cinema and went for a walk around the city near the river. We kissed a few times as we walked and the decided we were hungry.

I created sexual references in the conversation. One thing I did was talk about erotic/sensual films. She told me she’d seen Blue Velvet, Dangerous Liaisons, and some other films. I got her talking about those films. I got her thinking about John Malkovitch (from Dangerous Liaisons) as she said she liked him a lot in that film. What would happen if she met him? This heightened her sexual state and was to prove useful as an anchor later. I even paraphrased a Dorothy Parker line for her, “I couldn’t meet her because I was too fucking busy, or vice versa.” She liked that.

We had a bite to eat and I kept it fun and light. The last times we had met I’d run game to build value and intrigue (Intuition Sarging post) and then a few days ago I met her for a few hours and ran a lot of connection material. This time we developed wide rapport to add to the deeper stuff I’d shown her last time. We left the restaurant, and I tongued her down again.

It was a little cool by the river and it was getting late. I noticed things slowing down ever so slightly and I knew I had to keep things simmering so sat her down on my knee on the bridge across the river. We kissed long and passionately here, and I felt the sexual excitement build up again. I could see she was a little cold so I said we should go somewhere warmer. I’d deliberately stayed in the area of town near her apartment and when I suggested going somewhere warm I saw her putting two and two together. She asked where we could go with a half-knowing smile.

I smiled back and suggested the studio next to her apartment. It is a place where her mother paints and has a big bed, bathroom, kitchen etc. It’s a perfect little love-den.  I realised its usefulness as soon as I learned about its existence. She balked slightly at the idea of going to the studio and said maybe it was not a good idea tonight. I judged this to be just her playing the role of the good girl and sure enough, when I used negation on her and started walking, we ended up outside her place where the studio is.

I kissed her outside her place, knowing that to get up to the studio the surest way was to get her sexual mind engaged before making the decision. I wanted her thinking in an emotional way, not a logical one, so I upped the kissing, making it more passionate. When I calibrated she was into it a lot and getting turned on, I said “let’s go up to the studio.” She pretended not to hear me and asked me to repeat myself twice. I think this was a little test, and I stuck to my guns calmly and repeated myself non-needily and with just a touch of playfulness.

So up we went in the elevator to the studio. She came to the bedroom with me and I gave her a massage. I’d talked about massages earlier and had given her a massage while we were on the bridge. I could see she was a little nervous about the coming lay (if it was going to happen) and I used the massage to relax her and get her feeling good about being there together.

After 10 minutes or more of massaging and patterning and story-telling about massaging (to build comfort physically and emotionally) I incorporated kissing into the massage. I could see she liked that so I lay down next to her and kissed her lightly, encouraging her to kiss back. My meta-process whenever I get physical with a chick is usually inducing her to take an active part. If she thinks it is her own choice to kiss and touch then she won’t resist it.

I focused a lot on building comfort with her in the bedroom and not moving too quickly because I’d noticed she was a tad nervous, even though she was trying not to let it show. It paid off and soon my top was off and hers was up and then off later. Her little skirt was up round her hips and she was rubbing against me. She has a lovely six-pack stomach. Little by little the clothes came off as she got more and more turned on. I mentioned the Malkovitch (Dangerous Liaisons) anchor and linked it to how I was looking at her.

Finally I got her totally naked (and me too). She said “I feel a bit ashamed”, and I said “hey it’s ok I’M naked TOO!” She laughed. Using humour a little too in order to break any tension that came along was something I did a few times in the couple of hours we were in bed. It is something that has to be used with precision and properly otherwise it can ruin everything. Use it only if you know what you are doing with it in mind-fucking terms. I worked to build trust, breaking tension and upping the sexual excitement all the while. I did it by how I’d kiss and touch her – giving her enough attention to get her relaxed, then getting her turned on and taking it away ever so slightly, this made her come closer to me for more deep kissing. It’s like getting the fish to bite and then slowly reeling it in, letting it out a little while it is still on the line, reeling it in closer until you are in the position that the fish wants to be eaten by you. (RJ used that metaphor).

I fucked her and she was wild at times, clawing my back and really getting into it. There’s nothing better than seeing a cute girl with a great body writhing in pleasure underneath you. It was a hot Spanish night and the fan next to the bed couldn’t work hard enough to keep us dry. It was hot and passionate sex if ever there was some. Then I debriefed her.

Actually she debriefed me first by asking when I first knew I liked her. I told her it was soon after I met her and found she had more to offer than just being cute. I asked her and she said she didn’t remember exactly but it was early on too and one day she just realised she liked me a lot and she had missed not seeing me when I was in England.

She told me she’d planned to try and get together with me next week by organising a party and inviting me to it. That party was going to be a going-away party for me. I told her that wouldn’t have left much time for us to get to know each other. I told her my plan had been the better one and she agreed. This shows how AFC girls can be. She liked me and the best plan she could come up with to get to know me was a party the day before I leave.

She told me an hour ago she had wondered if it was going too fast. I realised she needed to have some validation that she had done the right thing in fucking me. I used a SS pattern about “it’s moving too fast” (thanks RJ), and talked about how long we’d know each other, making it seem like we’d been together for ages (even though we only kissed for the first time about a week ago or something). I told her I want to see her in England and we have to see each other again soon. This helped a lot and she relaxed again and looked so happy. I could tell she’d been thinking that now I’d laid her I would not want to see her any more. The truth is I do want to see her in England, I think she is a really cool chick.

She asked who knew about our relationship. I told her no one. That’s true in the normal sense of no-one. I’ve told no one in Spain about us, and I never kiss and tell. The fact that you guys know about her doesn’t count as far as I am concerned because I have kept her identity anonymous. I could see two scenarios running though her mind then and I made sure to cover both bases. One – she was thinking “good he hasn’t told anyone so I won’t be judged for sleeping with him.” Two – she was probably thinking “he hasn’t told anyone because this is just for fun and I might want more than that.” So I made sure to tell her I’d keep things quiet in Spain if that was what she wanted and that’d I’d love to introduce her to my friends and family in England if she would like that.

With a chick I want to see again I always go for “solid fucking”. By that I mean I take steps to get her over any feelings of buyer’s remorse. That’s why I spent some time getting her comfortable and trusting me in the bedroom before and after the lay. Once I have those elements, I have a solid foundation for the arousal to be built on. It all is build at the same time though through the pace of the kissing and touching. If am I doing a one night stand and I don’t feel anything deeper for the chick I’ll not bother taking all the comfort steps and go straight into high arousal. If, though, I want to make sure of seeing her again I’ll add in the trust and comfort make out techniques alongside the passion/arousal.

In the early morning I headed home, telling Dr Owl by phone of my fun as I walked, and wrote up this lay report.

Out with HB T (part 2) I went out last night with HB T and laid her again. I finally figured her out. Here’s what has been going on.
 
She was at a concert last night and messaged me to meet up afterwards. I went out and I met her and her girlfriend after they had been to the concert. It was about 2am by the time we met. That’s not so exceptional for Spain because the people go out much later than they do in England. So I thought the lay was going to be on when she said in her text message “do you want to come to the concert or we can meet afterwards.”. I took 2 condoms with me.

Her friend had to go home and we walked and looking for a taxi for friend, eventually found one. I was dying for the toilet and I was going to go into a bar to piss but HB T said she knew a better place nearby. She led me to the studio love-den where her mother paints. She hadn’t wanted to waste time talking in a bar. The work had already been done on the previous day when she’d told me she is into seeing lots of people and I’d accepted that and amped up those thoughts with stories showing I accepted and embraced that way of living myself. She knew we were both open to having no-strings fun. Having said that though, I think I got myself into the position of being attractive to her by gaming her, connecting with her, noticing how she thinks and making sure I matched what she was looking for in a person to have good times with.

So we went up in the elevator to the studio and kissed, slowly undressing each other. We both knew what we wanted this time and there was little need for making each other comfortable because we had already done that when I laid her a few days ago. It was like we just stepped right into that love-making session again, but this time there was the added bonus of knowing what the other enjoys and finds exciting.

She wanted to be taken from behind, and I obliged her. There was lots of other good fun as well, fucking and sucking. In the early hours of the morning we said goodbye and I took a taxi before catching a few hours sleep then heading to work.

My conclusions from all this. HB T is LSE but has a high sex drive. She is very open about sex with someone she finds different. She said she finds me exotic and open-minded and we think in similar ways. When I first met her I thought she was going to the typical girl looking for romance and connections and love. She is looking for these but wants it from multiple people, it seems. She has a borefriend and is still seeing him but is happy to sleep with me because she says I am very special. I thought for a long while she might be LTR material but I think she is total FB material and is exceptional in how open she is with me, and probably she is intrigued by how open I am with her about it all. It’s a case of playboy meets playgirl. We match because we are both unconventional thinkers when it comes to relationships. I like that. She might visit England in the summer but who knows. I could visit her in the future and be pretty sure of having her as a long-term FB because she is so open-minded and independent of society’s programming in regard to telling her how to act, what (and WHO) to do or not do. Sexually she does what she wants, is classy, bright and a lot of fun to be around. So ends the episode of HB T for today.