Last night I layed a very cute girl. Here is my lay report. This HB has, by far, the best body I ever had the pleasure to caress. She's a nice girl too which makes it even better. There ARE some good HBs out there. I encourage any readers who are sitting at home feeling sorry for themselves to take it from me that there are a lot of decent girls who do want to meet you. You need to talk to a lot of people, be friendly to everyone, and screen out the ones who are not interesting to you. Screen in the ones that meet your needs and ideals.

I have known HB Athletic for a couple of months. This girl has the most amazingly well toned, totally fat free body. I found out she is also highly sexual too. She is pretty, bright, and respectful. There is a language barrier of sorts as her first language isn't English, but as I told her last night as we lay naked together, "no language barriers now". What a great night it was.

I had already established myself as someone desirable a couple of months ago. I met her where I work and seeing as I had a position of authority over her, it was easy to display alpha traits,  charm her with my language, and to flirt. I also had other HBs interested around at work and there was a bit of competition between some of them I think.

I found HB Athletic hanging around outside my house one day after I had pointed out to her where I live as we went past my house on the bus together. I invited her in and we talked for a few hours while I poured on the kino. We kiss closed at the end of the night. I was making her work for it, and as I was already laying HB Britney around the same, I was in no hurry to fuck close HB Athletic.

Ah, the power of having choice. It was at this time I played that kino game with HB Athletic where I wrote a word on her bare stomach (what abdominals!) and she had to guess the word I wrote by closing her eyes and just feeling my finger touch her. Of course I wrote useful words such as "warmth", "kiss", "close" etc to help create a useful state.

This was two months ago and I worked away for a while and returned to my old job recently. I was playing around with another HB from work for a while, but it looks like HB Athletic was happy to wait because when I messaged her to meet me in town she wrote back straight away and asked "Where can I stay if I go out late with you?".  I suggested she could stay in my sister's old room (to avoid the slut factor in her head) at my place. I told her to meet me at the appointed time later in the week.

Last night I was going out on the town and I got a message from HB Athletic to say she would be arriving soon and could I meet her. So I went to meet her and I waited 10 minutes for her to arrive. She was late and I walked away after 10 minutes. I wasn't going to waste my time waiting for her. She is a sweet girl, but  I wanted to avoid creating the image of me waiting patiently for her, this could be seen as supplicating. Plus I was having a great time on the town and didn't want to miss much.

So I got a call from HB Athletic after half an hour to say she'd arrived. I made her wait 5 minutes more for me then returned to meet her.

I hugged her and took her immediately by the hand and led her through town. I think it a very useful technique to be immediately forward physically with an HB that you have met before. By being direct early on it sets the tone for the rest of the evening.

If she goes with it early on you can increase the tempo soon. If she doesn't get into it early on, then by immediately kissing her, it will seem that your smaller advances such as kino are more acceptable.

Maniac High wrote about this principle in his diary recently. Also I think Cialdini mentions it in his book. The idea is that by doing something big at first, it allows the smaller things you do later to seem more acceptable. For example you ask for the kiss on the lips at first and if she refuses then you say "well just on the cheek then". Your aim was to go for the cheek kiss anyway.

So I led her to a pub where my wingmen were. I wanted her to see me being the alpha as my wingmen look up to me and show it.  After a while getting social proof from the wings I took HB Athletic home. She was showing no resistance at all and I wanted to see how far I could take things. It is important to test how far your target will go as soon as you are getting IOIs. She had accepted the early introduction of kino and was doing everything I suggested to her. She was letting me set the pace, and if an HB is going to let me set the pace then I am going to set the pace. Don't let her lead too much. You can let her THINK she is leading but really she is leading in direction you have set.

I like to use double-binds. Give her choices to make, all of which are things I want her to do.

We took the train home to my place calling in for some food on the way. Back at my place we went to my room and I used the photo routine. We lay on the bed and I got some photos to show her of myself. Most of these photos include me with other HBs having a good time. I did this for more social proof.

I kiss closed her on the bed and got her warmed up and turned on a bit by kissing and kino. I took off my shirt and lay on top of her. I did this because of the law of reciprocity (also in Cialdini's book) where if I do something for her then she will feel the need to do something for me. So I allowed to her feel good with my bare top half against her for a while and then I unbuttoned her shirt slowly. I saw my first tiny sign of resistance. It was just a slight look of concern on her face. I was calibrating her responses all the time here though in order that I could continue and increase the things which seemed to turn her on and she enjoyed, and to stop doing or change the things which got a negative response.

I think this small hesitation on her face (that is all it was) was just her wondering how far she wanted to take it. I used the technique of "foot in the door" by saying to her I just wanted the top half off her and nothing more. So she seemed to relax. In her mind we were just taking our shirts off to kiss. My plan was to get her used to being naked, get her totally turned on, and then go for the fuck.

Everything went according to plan. I got her so turned on with all the kissing and kino that soon her hand was straying to my cock, brushing it slightly (a green light!). I took my pants off a little so she could see it and get used to the idea of the lower half being exposed. Reciprocation  came into play soon and after playing with my cock for 5 minutes, she took her pants off all by herself. (look! no hands!!!). I didn't even have to ask her.

I'll leave things there in my description of this seduction but I'll just say she was very horny and into it even more than me!! She couldn't leave me alone even when I wanted to sleep. And that body!. Jesus! like an Olympic gymnast. I didn't get much sleep.

A great night that was successful because I was willing to take the lead, test for her limits, didn't hang around and supplicate for her when she was late, was calm and fun with her, got good social proof, and used reciprocity and the "foot in the door" principle,  to lead and influence her.

This has been one of my most successful weeks. I have been involved with 3 HBs, 2 of them I have known during the summer - HB Chinese and HB Athletic (who I posted about before). There has also been a brand new HB who I met at a music concert. Her name is Deborah and is a dancer. Here is a summary recent events.

I met Deborah at a music concert. She was sitting near me and after a little while I turned to her and used a quotes pattern to allow me to start a casual conversation that would let me use covert patterning. I said "I was just telling my friend that I had no idea what kind of music to expect before I came down here. I didn't know if it would be loud electric music, or a quiet traditional band. But you know when you feel that mood where you want to take a chance and have a good time anyway...that just by getting out of the house and doing something exciting and unknown then you can FEEL THAT EXCITEMENT and growing interest as you enjoy this experience." From there I went into themes of looking forward to a holiday, that sense of expectation and letting go and enjoying yourself. I did a take away by turning my attention to the music, and she leaned over and tried to continue our conversation. I took this is an IOI.

I brought in her friends to the conversation briefly to avoid any cock blocking.

We talked a little and I heard some trance words - one was adventure, another challenge. We talked about sports and she challenged me to a game of pool. I teased her and said I'd beat her and maybe she wasn't up to the challenge. At the end of the night I number closed her with "It's too bad we won't ever get a chance to talk again." I messaged her and we arranged to meet on Wednesday. She is a dancer and a gymnast I learned too - in great shape.. 30 years old.

Wednesday

I went out in the rain to meet Deborah in town. I was slightly early and didn't want to hang around in the rain, so I went for a quick beer in a nearby bar. As I was leaving, she text messaged me saying "I am wet, where are you". When I met her I used this message to set the tone for the evening by saying "I am sorry, I didn't mean to make you wet - but I can't help having that effect on girls". She laughed and I kinoed immediately. I took her hand and she let me lead her away from the meeting spot. I said something to her (can't remember what I said) but she misinterpreted as me asking to kiss her.

I could tell by her body language and unconscious facial expression that she wanted to kiss me. She sort of lit up for a second or two. Noticing such responses as something I have worked on a lot this year. This is similar to Ross's testing boundaries using weasel phrases. I just wish I could remember what I ambiguously said to her.

We walked to a bar which she knew. I talked a lot on the way to the bar and got her laughing and joking. The aim here was to show personality. She said that at the music concert she'd thought I was a bit mad by the way I was talking to her about holidays. It was very different from what she usually hears from guys. I thought to myself "BUT IT WORKED, HERE YOU ARE WALKING HAND IN HAND WITH ME SHOWING IOIS".

In the bar we got drinks. I told her I'd buy the first ones, which I did, and we sat down. I made sure to sit next to her, not across from her, so I could kino big time. I patterned her, got her values, kinoed like hell. Talking openly was very important to her. She recently broke up with her husband for the reason that he couldn't talk about his feelings. I told her that this important to me (it is) and I made sure to use a lot of emotional talk, but not to neglect the sexual stuff too, for example when she said she'd broken up with her husband three months before I smiled at her and said "so it's been a while, has it?" (Ambiguously sexual).

My aim here was to:

a) Establish rapport and entertain her
b) Establish a connection
c) Build sexual arousal
d) Close it as far as I could

I did all these things well and we French kissed within about 15 minutes. I kept up the patterning and it was like the rest of the world was not there (to me at least). She had her leg over mine and my hands were all over her legs and waist as I cuddled up to her. She bought me two drinks.

We left to play that long-awaited pool match. I beat her, and all during the game, which she paid for, we were grabbing each other like horny teenagers.

At the end of the night I took her out side and we were tonguing each other and my hands up her top. She told me she wanted to meet for lunch on Saturday and then go back to her place on Saturday afternoon to make love. She just came out with it. She is a very adventurous young lady it seems, and yet is bright and has class. I like that combination.

She got into her taxi and I pushed a little to go back to her place that night. I think her kids were at home so she felt uncomfortable about going back home to her place though. She said on Saturday we'd have the place to ourselves.

Maybe I should have pushed harder to go back while she was in-state because on Friday afternoon she called me to say her husband would be home on Saturday, and she asked if we could meet for coffee on Monday. I told her ok. I don't know is this is her having second thought, but I'll meet her on Monday and pattern her some more. If she wants to play games I'll tell her I am not playing along with her. Then she can either decide to get down and dirty or I will next her. I have not supplicated to her at all and do not intend to.

Thursday

Went to see HB Chinese. She was a local student during the summer. I have kissed her and been to her place before. This night I fuck closed her. We ate dinner at her house (which she cooked for me). Then we went dancing at a club. She paid for my club entry and for my drinks.

Then she drove me home and we went to bed. She is not experimental in bed, and is very materialistic. She doesn't have the qualities I look for in a long term relationship, but she is very into me it seems. I left in the morning after she cooked breakfast for us.

Friday

After leaving HB Chinese's place I walked into town and called HB Athletic. She arranged to meet me in a cafe in an hour. She turned up and we talked a little. I kinoed and joked with her to build good feelings and rapport. We went to the library to look at travel books. In the elevator (we were alone) I pushed her up against the wall and strongly French kissed here, she responded equally passionately. I know that for both HB Athletic and HB Chinese, they doesn't like to show too much physical affection in public because they do not come from the same culture as do.

I arranged to meet HB Athletic in a nearby town later that evening. She turned up late and I had not waited for her. She messaged me from the station while I was in a nearby pub checking out HBs on my own. I went back to the station and met her. I told her off for being late and she apologised. I took her to a quiet pub for a drink and a chat. I suggested she would have to leave quite soon in order to get home on the last train. She said she didn't want to go home after she had just arrived. This showed me she was into sleeping together tonight. A definite green light.

I took her home to my place, and we fucked and sucked for half the night.

In the morning I told her she had to leave early because I had something important to do (I did). She wasn't happy and started playing sulky mind-games. I won the mind-games thanks to all my experience with my Swedish ex-GF's tricks. HB Athletic said sorry and I kissed her and felt her ass up before putting her on the train home.

This week was a hell of a good week.

I met and layed a HB this past weekend. I want to report what happened, how it happened and what I learned.

Firstly, this was a HB I initially had contact with online. Now, I promised myself to stay away from online seduction because it keeps you away from the real world and all its invaluable lessons. However this HB contacted me and we hit it off very well. We emailed regularly and chatted often on line. I also talked to her on the phone occasionally. She is American and I am English.

What I learned here was the importance of capturing the imagination and challenging the HB. You have to differentiate yourself from the crowd and show them FAST that you have something and are something different. I did a lot of SS patterning in my emails, chats, and on the phone. Then I took it away a little by being unavailable. In short I made her work for it and want me.

Stacy told me she wanted to meet me and was coming to Europe. She flew to Europe and did some travelling. I met her this weekend for the first time. Now, this was a highly sexual girl. I have learned to gravitate towards this type when I can identify them !! She came across this way in her emails and also in person. (The fact that she has a piercing on her clit confirmed this when I was going down on her !!!!!!!!!!)

I had booked a room for us to stay in with a double bed. We met and I went into seduction mood. Getting into state is crucial. I create a state that is confident and I know that I am the prize. I think of all the other girls who I have been with or who have complemented me in the past and think "hundreds can't be wrong" (not that I have slept with hundreds, but I have kissed at least that many I am sure). This created a good state as we met at the station.

We walked together through the town and I worked on confirming her good impression of me that I'd already created through our emails. Rather than thinking about where I wanted to take her GEOGRAPHICALLY, I focused on where I wanted to take her MENTALLY i.e to lead her state and her imagination, to excite her and to tease her, to play with her, and to make her realize my worth. As we walked to our accommodation I asked people for directions in a very confident and smooth manner. This was to establish social proof. I was beaming friendliness and warmth at everyone I encountered. At one point I had a young Irish HB walking with us and asking me some quite personal questions.

Needless to say this all enhanced her way of thinking towards me. As we walked I kinoed well. At the place we were staying we checked in (again engaging the landlady in conversation and making her feel good). We went to the room and Stacy got all tired for some reason and had to "lie down for a while". That was a GREEN LIGHT. I lay next to her and teased her with the prospect of a kiss. I did this non-verbally, by leaning in and engaging her gaze  then moving away again, fractionating, and making her work for it.

This only went on for a couple of minutes but was very effective at turning her on. She was soon all over me, tonguing me down. I think I decided to give in and enjoy it.

I got her so hot that we started going at it. She was very open sexually, as I'd guessed. I gave her clit a good tonguing and made her come powerfully, then got on top and fucked her hard.

Later, after numerous sexual games, came the DEBRIEFING.

I asked her what it was about me that made her want to meet and fuck me. She said I was charming and that she loved being with me, that she found me exciting and had known she'd wanted me for a long time. She asked me what made me want to kiss her and fuck her. I told her I'd promised her something and I always act on my promises. (I'd never explicitly said I wanted to fuck her, but I'd painted so much around that detail, I'd got her thinking that way so much, that conspicuous by its absence was the idea of wild fucking and all she had to do was to join the dots and follow the trail of breadcrumbs that led to my bed. All I did was to lead her mind in that direction.)

The next day as we lay on the grass in the park, she got so turned on that she started to play with my dick in public (under my sweater!) and jerked me off.

Another green light ? We fucked and sucked all weekend.

My learnings and thoughts on this are as follows:
Stacy is a highly sexual girl. Why waste time with girls who don't like fucking when there ARE HBs who love to enjoy themselves ? The trick is to meet a lot of HBs and to challenge them and to filter out the ones who respond well.

Using ASF/SS/Mystery-type skills works well. I integrate them into who I am. Don't try and be someone else, but instead try out new techniques and make them your own. Be scientific about what you try. By this I mean calibrate what is working and what is not. I keep a seduction diary of what I do and analyse what went well. I know for example which clothes I have worn and done well in. If you are not getting the responses you want you need to realize this and try something else.

There are a lot of HBs out there. Some are boring, some exciting. I know I am the prize and can meet HBs who are interested in me. Why waste time playing games and trying to turn-around that neurotic, miserable, fucked-up HB that you like ? Go out and meet fun, happy, bright, sweet girls who like to fuck. You owe that to yourself. Life is hard enough sometimes anyway without taking on girls who will drag you down. Instead, find girls (and people generally) who invigorate you, who teach you positive lessons, who leave you feeling high and happy? Compared to some of the HBs I have been involved with over the last few years, Stacy was a joy to be with. No ridiculous mid-games to contend with.

After Stacy left for her plane home and I took the train home, I had 2 MORE successes the same day. First was a HB I had met the week before at a karaoke bar. She was where I had arranged to meet her. She had 2 HB friends with her. I switched to Mystery's Group Tactics mindset. I entertained the potentially cockblocking friends and made them comfortable with me by using humour. I read their palms and kinoed them. I kiss closed HB Sunday (the karaoke queen) and left them. (She was having a girl's night out and had told me so in advance).

On the way home, in the train station I met a 19 year old Indian HB who engaged me in conversation on the platform and then came and sat next to me on the train home. We got off at the same stop and she came with me to the takeaway food place. We were laughing and touching each other a lot. She came back to the train stop with me and I kiss and number closed her before taking the train one more stop to my place. I should have suggested we go to her place, this was my one major mistake of the weekend.

This was a SUPER weekend for me and I am happy to be able to share it with you.

If you have any questions or comments I'll be happy to answer them.

Last night was a special night even by my standards. I was PUing amongst the local millionaires and their wives/hangers on. I am referring to being amongst the Newcastle United Football Club at a private party.

For sake of anonymity I will leave the place and occasion unspecified but I will say that it was a party I gate-crashed and one of the best nights of my life. I saw how royalty lives and for a few hours I was royal too. I gained access to this gathering unexpectedly and I was the only person there who was not connected to big money or well-connected.

Even so, I came to realise that even without money, simply having the right attitude and blending in confidently and using many of the PU skills taught on ASF and by Ross pays dividends.

I have learned the importance of social proof and have written about it quite a bit in my previous posts (do a search for them perhaps). So I set about establishing social proof even though I knew no-one there and all these people were millionaire high-fliers. I set about by befriending a few guys using the Elvis Script (thanks Mystery) and telling them some funny/interesting things and establishing rapport and getting them laughing.

I then worked some HBs into the scene by quoting the Elvis Script to them .. i.e "I was just saying to John (pointing at newly gained friend of the stars) about Elvis Presley .. did you know that ... "

By doing this you are coming at the HBs as an OK guy, someone who is already part of a group and someone who is therefore OK and safe to talk with. The fact that all these guys are well-to-do and that it was a private party made it even easier to do openers.

There wasn't the usual stigma involved it seemed. The best thing about it all was not everyone knew everyone (there were 200 people there) and many of the HBs thought I was a mega-bucks footballer too !!!!! Amazing what the prospect of status and wealth will do to open these HBs up.

So after introducing myself to a lovely blonde HB and chatting for a minute and getting some kino and social proof going, I did a takeaway and told her it was a pleasure meeting her. I went to work on some other HBs nearby. This has been a very successful group tactic of mine recently. By this I mean talking to a HB, kinoing, getting S.P then doing a takeaway in front of other HBs .. and moving onto them. I did this last night and met some real gold-digger HBs looking to PU a rich footballer. They were female PUAs basically. They worked in a pair (wings !!!!). I spotted their game almost immediately by the way they were moving between pro-footballers and kinoing and flirting with them.

I suppose it takes one to know one. I wonder how many other people knew what they were up to. I spoke to one of them for kicks. I asked her about how she did her hair (it was in dreadlocks). I asked her if it was worth the effort of all that styling. She said "oh yes" it was. I told her cheekily (remember that fun, put-em-on, attitude !!!???) - "you never know WHO you might go home with in a place like this, right!"  She laughed and knew I had spotted her game. She seemed cool about it. I told her not to waste her time with the particular star she had been going to work on, but instead to try the guy I pointed out to her someone I knew was much more available in my opinion (from my observations of the social dynamics at the party so far).

I am pretty good at reading how people are interacting and find it easy to tell people's states of mind. She moved off to him with a knowing but curious look in my direction.

Next I tongued down a footballer's wife/girlfriend. I have no idea which one she was but she was in her 30s and blonde .. short blonde hair. She was sitting with her female friends at a table. I had been helping myself to the food and was standing next to the table where she was sitting, close to the dance-floor.

She spoke to me. I believe she picked up on my energy and the smile on my face. Maybe liked my looks too (though I was not shaven and not especially smartly dressed - just jumper and jeans and boots). We talked a maximum of 10 seconds and then I moved in and tongued her down. It was mutual actually. She was as much into it as I was. I didn't really expect it but I know the right signals when someone is interested and I took immediate advantage of my opportunity.

I hugged my earlier contacts goodnight and left the party. For a night I understood how it is to be famous and rich. The people in that party thought I was part of the elite. The HBs had NO BITCH SHIELDS at all.

 Why have a bitch shield when  you know the guy chatting and meeting you probably earns 50,000 US dollars a week and is rated at 10 million dollars by the club? That kind of thinking on the part of the HBs somehow lowers those bitch shields down to below basement level.

The thing is though, I wondered if I'd want to meet a girl who would like me just because I am rich and famous. Maybe for a night of fun or maybe using your fame as an in-road to taming her, then fine. But for a long-term relationship ?? I doubt it. However I can see why these players are sometimes tired and sometimes so fit - if the HBs are throwing and offering themselves like I saw they were then we've got either a very worn-out, sleepless bunch on our hands, or people who are so damn fit they can do it all in a night's work.

What ball control! What fun I had! What an excellent night that was.  Wish you could have been there .. we could have made a killing together.

I'll end by saying that if you have the right game, use the right techniques and have the right attitude then you can have success with anyone at any gathering. Just because these people were rich didn't alter my game-plan. I used the same approaches and skills as I did a few days ago in a "commoners" pub where I tongued 4 HBs in 2 hours.

I even held back at the private party for fear of blowing my cover and being discovered. Still, even with that hanging over me. even though I restrained myself, I proved to be hit.

I went out last night and kiss closed 14 HBs. Here is what happened.

Before I went out I made sure to get into the right state. I have learned that having the right state is CRITICAL to having mega success with the HBs. Before this realisation I was doing reasonably ok, but since understanding this my success has skyrocketed. Also, since realising and putting into use the technique of getting talkative, my success has boomed. I laid 6 HBs last year (2002) and kissed 30-50.

To get into the right state I listened to Ross’s Unstoppable Confidence Tapes (the power attitudes and beliefs part in particular). I highly recommend getting the U.C tapes, they have helped me a lot. I also had a nice bath, got warmed up, and put on some good aftershave (I have Kouros by Yves Saint Laurant and also Polo Sport by Ralph Lauren). I listened to some songs that always get me into a confident state as I dressed.

I find Whole Lotta Love by Led Zeppelin, Staying Alive by the BeeGees (You can tell by the way I walk I’m a woman’s man, no time to talk), and The Bad Touch by the Bloodhound Gang (You and me baby ain’t nothing but mammals, so let’s do it like they do on the Discovery Channel) to be all useful. Everyone has songs that get them into a better state. Do you know yours?

I then went into town, meeting my wingman Alex on the way. Alex was my wing last New Year’s Eve too (see my MASF field report from last January). I’d also arranged to meet Rubber during the evening in town to do some PUs. Rubber and I had talked on the phone about doing some peacocking. He arranged to buy us some party hats (mine was a blue cowboy style hat covered in glitter and his was a glittery Union Jack hat). I also attached a small flashing snowman to my top before I went out. The peacocking really paid off.

The first pub we hit was just a warmer for me. I used the 3 seconds rule to approach a girl who had a flashing light on her top similar to my snowman ornament. I pointed at her light and said "Ah, you’ve got one too. Before I came out I was thinking about what I should wear, because you know, when you are getting ready for a night out, you sometimes can’t decide what to wear". I talk to all the HBs I meet as if I have known them all my life. Presuppose friendship and usually you get it. They seem to pick up on my energy too. Here, as always, I make sure to pace the HBs reality by bringing up universal experiences to create rapport and to set up a pacing and leading interaction.

Using the qualifiers "sometimes" and "usually", helps keep up the pacing because you are not saying something happens all the time (it might though). This is just an example of the kind of thing I was doing all night to HBs. I find that after talking to a handful of people -maybe 4 - I can be talkative all night. It is self-perpetuating. I later re-engaged this HB to access her hotter friend. I made sure to include the guy in the group in case he blocked.

The next pub was more of a rock bar and I got talking to a HB who I kiss closed. She’d mentioned my flashing snowman. I found that a lot more HBs opened me last night than usual because they were commenting on my hat and snowman ornament. Put those party hats on guys! I only talked to this HB for a few minutes and got the kiss close from her. I was very direct with all these HBs, no pussyfooting around or long drawn-out conversations. It was all fast and direct, very playful and ballsy. Rubber will perhaps explain and testify to my attitude better than I can, I think. I was not caught up in my own head at all. I was watching for IOIs (both conscious and unconscious) and watching for things to comment on to get her into a fun, playful mood. My aim was also to talk to tons of HBs and to move on quickly if nothing was coming from my interaction with her.

I have to say, looking back on it all now, I think 99% of the approaches went extremely well. I kissed goodbye 2 friends of the HB (on the lips but no tonguing. I had tongued the first HB)

I moved on to a new pub and Alex and I met up with Rubber who had brought the party hats (I must remember to pay him for my hat!). I ended up kissed 2 HBs together here in a 3some style get-together. I was talking to HBs left, right and centre and getting lots of social proof. The new cowboy hat was working wonders. I’d kissed one HB and had my arms around her, with her facing away from me, I then pulled her her friend in and said "Now I don’t want you kissing any boys really well tonight, you hear?" then kissed her too. I had the 2 HBs up against each other and was taking turns kissing each of them. I think every kiss close I went for last night, I got.

There was a girl there who I used to work with and she called me over. I kissed her 6 years ago at work and when I saw her on the street near the pub later in the night I made sure to catch up on old times with a tonguing. Ah, nostalgia.

 I was getting IOIs from lots of HBs here, mainly in the form of eye contact and smiles.

We decided to move on.

We headed to a downstairs bar next door. Shit, I can’t remember what happened in this place other than there were 4 HBs we were playing with. I kissed 3 of them. Rubber, care to elaborate? One was older with bleached hair. We went to a bar that plays 80s music. We had a lot of fun here (at least I know I did!). There was a tall HB I liked here. She had a spiky hair style  and I commented on it. I was very playful with her and I ended up kissing her too. A few times during the night HBs in pubs would ask if they could try on mycowboy hat and I’d say "Sure, but I want something in return, I want a kiss."

Then, as I put the hat on her head, I’d kiss her. The law of reciprocation. This worked well every time. Rubber had isolated the spiky hair girl’s blonde friend by this time and I saw him was gazing seductively into her eyes as he spoke to her. No idea if he closed her. Alex was having fun dancing with the 3rd HB in the group. Other HBs would come filing past and give eye contact a smile. 3 HBs even asked if tbey could kiss me. Rubber, did you see me move towards the door for a minute in the 80s bar? I kissed one HB and then her 2 friends asked if they could have a kiss too. Who was I to refuse?

I went for the number close on the spiky hair HB but didn’t get it. I could have gone for number closes on some of the others but they didn’t interest me as much. I know I can get quantity now, but it is the quality I am looking for in HBs more now.

We walked to a rock bar for midnight. I lost Rubber in here, no idea what happened there, though it was rather busy. Rubber, did you have any fun in here? I met some HBs and made sure at the stroke of midnight that there was a nice HB nearby for a celebratory kiss.

If you remember my last post at New Year, you'll remember I had 8 kiss closes.

Well, tonight is a follow up. I didn't try and yet I managed 4 kiss closes. I'll try to explain what to do and some of the techniques I used to achieve this.

I hadn't planned to go out and score big time. That is one secret. If you go out in the expectancy of winning big you can put yourself under a lot of pressure. A better attitude is .. let's just see what happens -  "Let's be friendly". Let's just say things to girls who are nearby and see how they respond. I promise you if just talk in a friendly way with a smile on your face, you'll get some good experiences.

I went out on my own tonight. If you remember, my wing messed up last time. Well he wasn't available tonight so I thought why not just me. No excuses this time. And it paid off .. I was kissing 2 girls together by the end of the night .. I was jumping from one pair of lips  to the other .. and they were friends .. they loved it .

I went to the same place I started scoring at New Year.  I was a bit nervous. Like most PUA or wanna be PUAs I am nervous at the start. I know almost EVERY PUA goes through this .. even Mystery has admitted so. You need to break through that initial nervousness. You need to know your feelings are tricking and conning you. That unless you take action then evolution is weeding you out and you will go home to your fist. Palmala Handerson. I have had enough of that and I am sure you have too. As Mystery suggests, remember this is just the HOLODECK ... this is not real life ... it is a computer game that you are playing. If you lose a life then the game is NOT over . You just restart or reload from where you left off.

In addition this is not always the best scenario. Often times, in fact I would say A LOT of the time they LOVE it when you come on to them. The decent girls LOVE it when you come over and talk to them, when you challenge them, when you neg hit them, and when you capture their imagination like no one has ever done before.

I went out tonight. I was in the pub I mentioned. I was not really trying. The first one I talked to was just for warm up. A BIG girl. Not someone who I would want a long term relationship with.(Sorry). She was below my standard yet she blew me off. She was not friendly. Now I have been out with some real HBs and this one was NOT a HB. I asked her about her ear rings. She didn't bite. Notice the fishing analogy. I threw her back anyway. Someone who is not open and friendly fails my test and I move on. So what, right?

In the same club on the way out I passed a HB who was half dressed.

I mentioned something about how I liked the dress she was almost wearing (Thanks RJ for that). She bit the line. My fish was hooked. I kinoed and she liked it. Remember to kino WHENEVER possible. I took the deal away for a few seconds to show I was not desperate. I kinoed then moved away a few metres. She came back to me and I kiss closed her. I was very direct with the close. I said to her "look I have to go soon but I want my kiss goodbye before I leave.". She said Ok ... then I tongued her down for a few minutes and left. Lovely stuff. MMmmmmmmmmmm. She was about 20 with shoulder length brown hair, English. Cock block girl friend tried get on scene but I kissed her quickly on the lips before she could do anything, then I moved on.

Went to next place. Different bar full of single HBs with their friends. I spotted 3 HBs in a group. They were buying drinks at the bar. I was at the bar too. Being at the bar at the same time as the HB helps. It gives you time to go to work and she can't run from you.

I told her she was a HOBBIT. I said how much I liked her in the Lord of The Rings. Both her and her friend were short .. maybe 5 feet 6 .. not really short ..just normal HB height in England. I am about 6 feet .. maybe just under. I told "Froddo" I had always been attracted to Hobbits and even though she wasn't as famous as the ones in the film I still liked her a lot. A neg hit of sorts. Another I have worked on also is "Can I trust you?". It makes them prove themselves to you. They are therefore qualifying to you and not viceversa.

Giving a HB a role to live up to is something RJ has taught. You can give them an image of adventure to live up to e.g "I don't know if you are adventurous enough to .... " OR what I have done recently is give the HB a fun role to live up to. E.g a hobbit. Or on new year's eve I pretended I was a priest and it was about time the HB with the cross around her neck told me her sins. My name is Father Steve by the way .. that's what I told her anyway. What you are doing here is separating yourself from the crowd. Be ANYTHING but predictable and stereotypical. HBs get hit on so many times by so many lowlifes with the same sleazy and predicable script - "Hi how are you ...where are you from ... do you know X bar....???I was .. I was ... I was ..." FORGET IT. Do something different or be happy to sink into the "been there and done that"part of her mind. Differentiate yourself my friends. Tell her she's a hobbit; for example ... tell her Elvis died his hair... tell her David Hasselhof is cool.. remember how he talked to his watch ?? I mean if you could call upanyone on your watch and talk to them who would that be ??? Do you get the idea ??  ... be different !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

In the next bar kissed 3 in here. First one was trying to squeeze past me .. it was pretty full. She was not the most beautiful ... maybe 6/10 .. but it is all good social proof. I kissed her as I looked into her eyes. She loved it. I took the deal away and 5 minutes later made myself available again and she came over and grabbed me. Lovely stuff. She was a good kisser and provided good/excellent social proof.

I moved into another group. They fought over me and I ended up kissing both of them together. One with short blonde hair, 25, the other shoulder length brown hair, 27. I kept them in suspense. I think that is a VERY important skill to know in a pub. Don't commit to either one inside the pub. Keep them guessing and working for it .. then when you allow one to kiss you they really enjoy it. Then you kiss the other one too and put her out of her misery. What an awful situation to be in for a guy.

So I kissed both HBs together. I had my arms around both of them at the same time. They were out together. I'd kiss one and then the other. Both kissed well. I tried to number close after the kiss close but they didn't bite. Just playgirls perhaps... oh well can't complain can I? Mr Playboy can't complain if they are playing too ... still is better than sitting home on your own, don't you agree? The thing is though if it was a different set of girls I probably could have got their numbers. Just the way it worked with is particular set ..they maybe had husbands or bore friends to plague their consciences.

What have I learned ??? Well the most important thing is ATTITUDE is so much. It really does count for so much of your success. Just having the attitude of going for it .. of trying no matter that she says or does .. that is ALWAYS better than standing there inside your own head shitting yourself. Often times (and I PROMISE you this .. I PROMISE ,,, they are WANTING you to make contact with them. In the last pub I was with the 2 HBs and I was kissing them and they said how they talked about me even before I made a move. They, and their friend.. 3 HBs .. all said they liked me before I made a move and initiated contact.

The truth is you don't know a HB likes you until you go in there and find out.)

The other thing to remember is it is all practice. That is all it is ... and it is FUN practice too,as long as you tell yourself it is practice. Just go in with the idea of talking and being friendly. That is the first step. Once you can do that then the next step is to fry their circuits and differentiate yourself from the rest of the crowd who want to meet her. I'll write more on that in a future post perhaps.

So that is 4 HBs kiss closed in a few hours. Piece of cake. Easy stuff ... if you know how.

I want to report a success that I had this weekend, to share it with my fellow PUAs and to point out some of the principles and techniques I used which come from reading ASF and following SS. I believe, in fact KNOW, that since studying these matters I have had a LOT of fun and success recently.

On Friday I layed HB Sunday. (So called since that is the night we first met.) I posted about her and HB Belgian fighting it out for me a couple of weeks ago. Here is what happened and how.

I went out with my wing on Friday night. We had a couple of drinks but were not in any way drunk, just relaxed. We went to our regular karaoke  bar where I often do will with the HBs. I find karaoke bars to be good for PU actually. People are there to have fun … hey are laughing a lot, and these places arenot places automatically associated with PUing, so you get fewer bitch shields.

I have known HB Sunday since last year. I met her using textbook ASF techniques. First I was just having fun and talking to HBs in the karaoke bar. I was not obviously hitting, I was fun, friendly, and outgoing. I won them over before going for any closes. This is vitally important. You need to create value in her mind. She needs to realise from the first minute that you are different and have something to offer. You do this by your attitude. You are not needy or desperate, you are the prize. You are having a great time in your life and she can either miss out, or join in and have a good time too. Most of them seem to want to join in.

I go into a mood where I am unphased by anyone who doesn't want to play. They are missing out and there are loads of HBs who do want to play. I say the word "NEXT" in my mind and move on. I use Mystery's "Pleasure meeting you" too. You move on elegantly and leave her thinking you are a gentleman. You are not a nice guy. You, like Satan, are a horny little devil and a gentleman. Big difference. The idea of talking to loads of HBs also gives you that all important SOCIAL PROOF. This is crucial if you want to score big in bars and pubs and clubs. It also creates a massive boost to your state. I find that when I get into that state there is no stopping me. I know that after a few warm ups I can approach even the hottest HB in the place.

I recommend doing WARM UPS. This means talking to people, anyone without ANY desire to PU them. Just get the jaw going and be talkative. Smile a hell of a lot. In fact I create a MASSIVE grin on my face that has people smiling too when they see me. Last week I was getting a drink in a bar and the music was brilliant, I was with 2 HBs and my state was right through the roof. I was smiling bigtime at the bar-server HB and she couldn't but help smile back and give me major eye-contact. Now I use my physiology to create that great mood.  By this I mean I force myself to smile. If you do this for a while you find your mood changing. You can use your physiology to control your state. Try it. Next time you are feeling pissed off try smiling constantly for a few minutes. It changes the way you feel.

Meeting HB Sunday and her friend HB Glitter (she wears eye glitter and is a HOT blonde) I was in this mega-fun state. I went in with the ELVIS SCRIPT. I love the ES … it invariably gets an interested response.  I made them laugh and told them interesting stories without being needy. I quit while I was ahead and talked to another HB next to me and them. The new HB laughed too and I got loads of social proof. I moved back to Sunday and Glitter. More teasing and challenging. (Note … don't challenge them until you have established your worth otherwise you may be seen as a jerk and not someone worth fighting over. I learned this last week. I had established rapport and worth from a group set the week before. Then last week when I tried challenging them and their new CB friends they flipped out and 2 turned against me. I didn't disarm the new obstacles in the group and when I challenged them they just thought "who the fuck does this guy think he is ?". Always re-establish rapport and disarm potential obstacles no matter how good you think you are doing. Be consistent in your tactics. Follow the rules boys.)

Remember to kino and anchor whenever you can too. Kino is so enjoyable. I touch on the upper arm lighly as I speak and increase it gradually as they respond. Often they are as much into the kinoing as I am. Win win. We both enjoy it .

I saw HB Sunday and Glitter a few weeks running and used them to gain social proof and to practice my patterning and routines on. I could take them or leave them but I was consistent. I didn't ASK her for anything. I didn't supplicate. Now, supplication is as much as what you don't say as what you DO say. It is a mental attitude that can be anything from thinking to yourself "She wouldn't be interested" to just not looking at a pretty HB who you like for fear of what she might think. That is supplicating. It is treating her with undue and unearned respect. Until she shows you she has something more to offer you than her looks you don't do her any special favours. Be charming, sure, but don't let her control the way you think or make you break your state that says "You are the prize".

Turn your lust right down and think to yourself "OK , she is beautiful , so what , what else does she has that would make me want to be with her?". There are tons of beautiful girls in the world , anyone can be born beautiful, it is a trick of nature. What I want is someone with MORE…. I want someone who is friendly, fun, stimulating, interested and interesting, exciting, passionate, bright, open, loyal, trustworthy. If she can't show me some of these then all the beauty in the world isn't going to help her.

Sometimes I will qualify them. I watch for IOIs and then use neghits or takeaways. I will ask them to name 5 qualities about themselves that would make me want to get to know her better. (only do this after they show interest). I will pattern them and listen for trancewords. I have recently started paying FAR more attention to her unconscious responses. If  I see her responding well to something I go right after it and drop my previous plan. Always go after her map of the world and what lights HER up. Thanks Ross for teaching me this and so much more. (By the way get Ross Jeffries' Unstoppable Confidence Tapes if you don't have them !! They have helped me in a MAJOR way.) Never ask if she has BF. If she does and it is a problem she will let you know.

If it ain't broke don't try to fix it. Don't question life's complexities when the leather runs smooth on the passenger seat (as Morrissey wrote).

I kept up this interaction with HB Sunday and Glitter. I made sure that Glitter liked me so she wouldn't cockblock. In fact I didn't initially know which of the two HBs were interested in me so I entertained both of them equally. Only when Sunday started to give IOIs did I target her. I even met Sunday with some of her new friends from work. I made sure to quickly win her friends over so that when I left them to talk they would talk favourably to about me. I used palm-reading on them and had them smiling and doggy dinner bowling. I love it !!!

This weekend was a natural progression. Sunday had been messaging me quite a bit. I never texted straight back, but made her wait a while. You are perceived as having a lot more worth if they have to work for you. Don't give yourself away too cheaply. She was telling me she was thinking of me a lot. I didn't wind in the fishing line right away. Instead I worked her up even more by implying what could happen. I led her imagination but didn't mention fucking or anything. The most we had done was kiss heavily. Through my eye contact and facial expressions I showed her that there was something steamy under the surface waiting for her. I didn't have to spell it out for her. She know. They know if you communicate it well. It is always better if they imagine things themselves rather than you pushing it in their face. People don't resist what they perceive as their own ideas.

This weekend HB Sunday asked "Do you want to come back to my place?" .. Ididn't even have to close her. I had her so worked up and interested that she closed me. That shows you are doing things right. I pretended to think about it…"Well ….. (looking at my watch)…… I could … well …. Ok ..(smile and kiss her on the lips". I went home with these HBs. She paid my bus fare and bought me food on the way home without my asking. YES!!!!

Back to her place and ate in the kitchen then pulled her close and kissed her. Went up stairs to her bedroom and passionately kissed her as I undressed her. No resistance. None. Into bed and were fucking within 10 minutes. She was very wet. Didn't give it to her straightaway. Remember to build them and work for it! Stay consistent to the techniques remember!!!  Fucked her all night and now she is sending me messages again asking how it was. So to sum up. HAVE THE RIGHT STATE.

GET SOCIAL PROOF
SHOW YOUR WORTH
DIFFERENTIATE YOURSELF FROM THE CHUMPS
DON'T SUPPLICATE
KINO
ONCE YOU GET IOIs CHALLENGE/ NEGHIT (if she is hot especially)
OFFER HER OPPORTUNITIES. NEVER ASK. YOU ARE THE PRIZE.

Of these, I think having the right mental state in yourself is the most important. If you can have that "let's have fun and see what happens" attitude, you can't go wrong.

I went out last night for New Year's Eve. I kiss closed 8 different girls, and got phone numbers for 2 (the only 2 I tried for). Here's what happened. I am in Newcastle, England.

I learned and reaffirmed some of my previous believings this night.

1. Met my wing Alex and went to town. We went to a pub packed with people.

Alex spotted a friend of his from school. Turns out the friend is married. He had his wife and her blonde friend with him. I made conversation with the girls about the celebrations later on in the night "Did you know there are fireworks later by the river ... Can you believe the price they are charging to get in that area ?" . The idea and principle here is similar to the Elvis Script ..using some kind of information to just get talking .. something interesting.

Not quite as good as the Elvis Script but more appropriate. I find I need a few approaches to get warmed up and this kind of talking to HBs about anything, anything at all is good as a warm up. I was not trying to PU these girls .. it was far from my mind. I simply and deliberately used the occasion here to be friendly and get into the right frame of mind.

In the same bar I spotted a girl I used to go to school with. Got talking with her .. working on my state of mind .. getting kino poured on and smiling a lot. Used old school friend to meet her HB friend ..

2. Went to a new place. The bar maid seemed to notice my good attitude as she offered me a party hat. I find a gimmick like a hat, a medallion etc. is useful as it allows HBs to comment on it and make an intro. Sure enough this happened soon after I put on the hat. A HB came over and said she liked it.

3. In new bar spotted a girl who used to go out with a friend of mine. She is married now and was there with her Hasbeen (Husband) ... number closed her and she kissed me good bye on the lips.

4. Moved on to a new place having warmed up and got my hat sorted out ! This is where it all really got going. Alex spotted 2 HBs and we went in. He asked me to introduce him to one he liked. I was (over)thinking of how to do a Mr Cool type approach (Thanks Maniac for that post) .. and I over hesitated .. REMEMBER THE 3 SECOND RULE !!! Alex went in. I didn't hear what he said but it was not the best opener ever due to her reaction. The thing is once someone has made contact with the HBs I fly. I went straight in on the friend. It was very loud and you had to shout to be heard. My HB was smiling and seemed into it but her friend was not impressed with Alex and wanted to leave. Damn .. remember tobring a decent wingman who doesn't fuck it up for you. Or go alone. They left.

However SOCIAL PROOF was gained. A horny looking blonde, about 32 was looking over at me and smiling. I went over .. didn't say anything and leaned over the railing towards her and smiled .. looked into her eye. She moved in and kissed me. She was soon like a starving beast and I was a feast. I have never beenkissed so wildly and with so much abandon. We kissed for maybe 3 minutes non-stop ..her hands were all over me (and vice versa !).

I find SOCIAL PROOF to be a wonderful thing. Very effective at meeting the HBs in a pub or club. When they see other girls chatting and smiling with you..then you take the deal away and they come back ..well that sends a message to the other HBs ... "this guy has got something". I have learned this from ASF in theory .. but until recently I never knew how powerful a technique it is.

Other HBs saw me talking with HB 1 ... then kissing HB 2 .. and on leaving the bar I kissed 2 more. That was 3 in one place. My state was super. I was using SS in my openers .. It's difficult to remember exactly what I said (isn't that the case usually when it works .. reason being that you are not in your own head when you do it .. you are watching and observing the HB .. finding something to comment on .. looking for an opening to light her up .. watching her eyes). These last 2 here DID employ the 3 Second Rule. I went straight in. Maybe I said something like "You know when you like someone you really like ... and part of you just says go for it .." I did it with a huge smile and a lot of balls and eye contact. I kissed both of these within 10 seconds.

4. As you can imagine I was on top of the world. Alex and I moved on to a new bar. The bar maid here seemed to pick up on my mood when she was serving me .. she kept smiling .. and she hadn't even seen me before. ATTITUDE IS SO IMPORTANT; they instantly pick up on it .. and if they like it a lot is possible.

Again in this bar I was successful. I was not inside my own head I was watching and observing like a lion on the prowl (all with a big smile!). I kissed a HB near the bar and moved on down the bar. I spotted a girl with a crucifix around her neck as I was walking past. I did a comical double take (I used this a lot last night to get their attention .. to get eye contact .. sometimes I looked shocked at seeing them .. then smiled once they looked. I was very direct and playful ..but not needy at all.)

I said to her "Now you're not going to tell me you are a good little Catholic girl ? If you were to think of all the bad things you've done and enjoyed and realize that you need to tell them all to the priest ... by the way my name is Father Steve" ..she laughed and I kissed her .. think I said "Here is your penence."

I felt like I could get ANYONE in the bar. I said to Alex "Point out any girl and I'll go and get her." He pointed out one. As I made my way to her I spotted she was in a group with 2 guys and another girl. Time for Mystery's Group Tactics I thought. (Thanks Mystery... you are a genius). I went in and befriended the guy. After winning him over and meeting the others in the group I asked how they all knew each other. He said the target was his wife. A no-go situation .. so I made my exit gracefully. I was happy to have used the group tactics well.

In the other corner spotted a super HB and went in. I was flowing by now ... I went in straight away with some patterns. Something like "You know when you see someone and you really like this person and you wonder what it would be like to meet them .. and you find yourself becoming curious ...etc." It was on the fly, I can't remember the wording precisely. She seemed to trance out .. her eyes glazed as I was saying it. Then she said "I'm here with my BF" .. bullshit I thought and prepared to go for a BF destroyer pattern. I asked where he was tonight. She answered "He's right beside you." I turned and looked and there about 2 feet to my right .. looking at my PU on his GF was the borefriend !!!

Shit ! I came clean to him and said I was trying to meet his GF .. that he shouldn't leave her alone like that because he could trust me .. but that he had very good taste .. did he know that ... He took it well and I exited.

5. Went to a rock bar and it was rocking. I chatted to loads of HBs simply for social proof. They kept coming back over when I moved off from a new one. I kept in the same area so they could notice what I was doing. Kiss closed 2 HBs in this group. One put up some slight resistance at first. I got round it with "You know when something is important to you (SP).. and you want to practise it... to get good at it ? I want to make sure my kissing at midnight is great and I need someone to practise with." She went for it ! Moved across the bar and spotted 2 mega HBs with maybe Bi tendencies.

Number closed and kiss closed both of them. They were posing for the camera kissing each other as I took their photo a number of times.

All in all a super night.

Over the past year or so I have seen my success rate in attracting HBs skyrocket. Currently I am seeing the following girls/have them chasing me :-

Two Chinese HBs who I am banging, a very fit ballet dancer with a jealous ex-husband, a cute Portuguese girl, a chick I met last week in a 5 set, and now a HB I picked up last night who is VERY nice quality - maybe an 8.5

I want to recount my picking up of this hot chick last night and explain how I did it, what was going through my mind and what techniques I used. BTW I am finding many of these techniques are working for me consistently now and are evolving into my own style.

I was out with Rubber in a nice wine bar. I had been waiting quietly for him to arrive, and was not warmed up. When he arrived I knew that if I wanted to get into a useful PU state, I’d need to get talkative, so I started talking and talking. I find this energises my state and allows me to sell myself better. I make sure now to always get warmed up and talkative.

Rubber and I got talking about his doing bootcamp and not listening to any AFC songs anymore. We tried to think of Elvis songs which have no AFC lyrics. We came up with a few, then as we talked, we spotted 2 HBs walk in and come stand next to us at the bar. One was the 8.5 (Jade) early twenties, tall, long dark hair, good body, and the other a cute HB in her late 30s/early 40s. Both were well dressed. Rubber launches into the theme of Elvis, as we were talking about him anyway. He said "Do you know Elvis?".

Now this opened them up, but, as I told Rubber later on in the night when the sarge was over, you need to sell yourself a little when making that initial opener. This is a realisation that has proved correct over the past year as I have experimented with it.

SELLING YOURSELF IN THE OPENER

If you are a HB in a bar or a club, or anywhere really, chances are you are going to get opened a lot if you are decent looking. These HBs get lame AFC guys coming over to them a lot and asking questions like "Do you come here often?"

The result of your asking an often heard question to her is you get an often-accessed autopilot response from the HB. She thinks "another guy on the make - no thanks". You can avoid this by selling yourself and making sure to use openers which differentiate you from the other guys she had been approached by before. If you are different in your opener and sell yourself in a unique way you fry her circuits somewhat, put her autopilot on hold, and that allows you to gain access to leading her into a state where she is suggestible.

What happened last night was Rubber opened with "Do you know Elvis?". That is all he said initially. He got away with it, but for a couple of seconds she looked at him and was processing what to say in response. He gave her a chance to initiate autopilot, and that is something we want to avoid. I recommended to him later that you KEEP GOING after your initial opening words.

If you keep going you have the chance to sell yourself to her before the autopilot ever gets the chance to rise to the surface. If you keep going in your opener and lead directly into a linked theme and tell a story or anecdote, then you convey personality, show her you are a safe and normal guy to talk with, and start to use other PU techniques on her.

What Rubber could have done to make his opener better was to link his initial question to a story/quotes in order to sell himself. He could say "Do you know Elvis? Because I was just saying to my friend Steve that in so many of his songs, Elvis seems to be a victim, he always seems to have his heart broken by some girl, and we were just trying to think of a song where Elvis is not heart broken. Now, I suggested Viva Las Vegas, you know that one? And Steve came up with Jailhouse Rock, but you know when you think about it, it’s quite difficult to come up with some"

Don’t give her autopilot a chance to emerge. Establish yourself as someone cool, fun and interesting to chat with. Smile, laugh, kino. Once you have done that, bring in other PU techniques.

CONVEYING PERSONALITY

Rubber got into the above routine after a short time, but he could have done better by launching straight into it. He did the Elvis Script. During the Elvis Script I got the impression that the autopilot responses were emerging again.

They seemed to be evaluating what he was saying rather than letting go. I had taken a step back from it all, had shut up, and was evaluating how well Rubber could establish himself. I think the HBs needed to see more animation and getting in state from Rubber.

I think Rubber had to genuinely convey that it IS weird that Elvis died/dyed...his hair, and that so did Prescilla. He said the words fine, but I think he needed to get more into the feeling behind the script which would allow him to infect the HBs with a buoyant, upbeat mood. You often only have a minute or less to sell yourself to a target and pretty quickly you have to fascinate her or get her feeling great or you risk stalling out. I think that was a slight danger here with Rubber and the HBs. He was doing ok but I don’t think he was really lighting them up.

This reminds me of people who have been to the Mystery Method Workshop and have said that when Mystery does the Elvis Script he gets amazingresults and when they do it they get average results - using the exact same words. Mystery lights them up using his body language, facial expressions and tonality.

WINNING THEM OVER
I stepped in at this point as I saw the risk of things stalling out. Briefly what happened was I began getting them laughing, lighting them up by getting in a tremendously out-going, fun state and conveying that state to them through my body language, facial expressions and stories. I was very enthusiastic in what I was saying and immediately the HBs were interested in talking with me. I set a time frame on the interaction and threw in some social proof by saying we didn’t have long to talk and I’d have to go soon as I had to meet another girl in the bar next door. (Remember to only do this once you have got them interested).

This is a psychological takeaway of sorts as you imply you are going to deny the HBs a continuing of something they are enjoying. It also increases your value.

After about 15 minutes of working on these HBs I could see they were interested. It was time to go and meet the girl (I really had arranged to meet another HB - the one from the 5 set last week).

My one mistake here was not to close the HB for a number. I am pretty sure I could have got it. As it turns out, the HBs came to bar next door and found us a little later.

CLOSING
After going to another bar with Rubber, and opening a tough 5 set (3 guys and 2 girls) purely for practice (BTW I managed it but had to cycle through tons of themes until I got a bite from the one guy in the group who I could see was not won over in the initial themes), we returned to the "next door bar" and guess who was there waiting to see us? You guessed it …. The 8.5 HB and the other HB (who it turns out is her MOTHER!!!! MILF, oh yes!).

I went to work on Jade 8.5 while Rubber went to work on the MILF. I patterned Jade using ideal man and she DDBed. She said she had never met anyone like me before. I upped the kino and closed her for a number, got it very easily, kissed both HBs goodnight and left.

I wish I’d been able to record it, but that peacocking shirt I was wearing is too damn tight and thin to hide a mic underneath it properly.

All in all, a great pick up with a pretty hot HB.

Chicks often mind-fuck with us to control us.

Recently I have been giving my Taiwanese HB a dose of mind-fucking so she knows not to mess around with me. I did to her what chicks often do to guys.

I've been seeing HB Y for a couple of weeks now, had tonguedowns and been in her bed, tits feeling, grinding. She cooks for me and buys things for me. I therefore treat her well because she treats me well. Then on Thursday she blanked me.

We had class together and for 2 hours she ignored me, didn't say hello, smile, nothing. I knew I had to call her on this and make sure she knows she is not going to fuck around with me. She was testing me I am sure.

At the end of class she came over and asked me to look at her work. Well fuck that. I was cold to her and promptly left class without saying goodbye. She followed me out and asked what was wrong.

The trick here is to NOT lose your cool. RJ makes a good point when he says you need to let people know your rules or they won't know they are breaking them. Do so in a calm and matter of fact way. I told her why I was not happy with her behaviour. She said sorry and asked if I was still going to visit her on Monday. I said maybe, if I have time. That was a takeaway to let her know she was going to pay a price for testing me like that and if she does it again she will lose out.

Later I did other things to let her know I am not going to be messed around. It was all very covert and subtle but very powerful.

1. I set jealousy traps. I told her some of the other chicks she knows play the piano too (HB Y plays and tries to impress me by saying she will play for me). I mentioned the other chicks were so surprised that I play too, that I have so much in common with them. I asked HB Y how long she has played and made sure to tell her the other chicks have played longer.

2. Bodylanguage takeaway. I was thinking of Malkovich in Dangerous Liaisons when he dumps Pfiefer "I am so bored" he tells her. I was thinking how bored I felt with HB Y at that time and I made sure to turn my BL away from her as we sat together. I eyed up other chicks as they walked past and let her see me do so.

3. I used my "that's very kind of you" line at the cafe check out to get her to pay for the drinks. Works great. Her agreeing to it shows the power is firmly back with me.

4. I kept her in doubt as to whether she would see me on Monday. I told her I have lots of reading to do.

5. She asked me to learn a piece of music for her. I let her know I am going to have to get something back in return. She asked what. I said "I am sure we can think of something." (so she thought of sex) and then I changed the thought in her head by saying "you might have to cook for me", but the sex thought was in her head. I made sure to do this after all the other mind-fucking so she would likely think if she didn't agree to my suggestion she would lose me. I didn't want to say "sex" directly because society ASF is stronger than my mind-fucking, perhaps :-)
But the thought went in alright and she didn't close down as she processed it. I then gave her a get out clause by changing thought into an acceptable one for her.

By playing with her thoughts like this you have great power. You know she is feeling jealous and she doesn't know you know. You know she is thinking of sex and she doesn't know you know. She is shit-scared to lose you and she doesn't know you can read that in her. I felt like a puppet-master that evening. I didn't want to be that but she forced me into it by her shit-testing me.

My value to her has increased massively.
Later : -

I met up with HB Y (subject of the mind-fucking) and she was all over me. She said she was addicted to kissing me as we lay on her bed. She was way more sexual with me than ever before and she was initiating physically, which she didn't do much before.

I mind-fucked her again by giving her a present of her favourite music. It's carrot and stick, or 101 theory. Reward her for doing what I want, punishing her when she breaks the rules, then rewarding her again when she performs properly. Training theory.

Sit! Roll over. Beg for Stevie.